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    Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 6:41pm
You all know me from that "I caught my boyfriend with another man" thread. Well I have a new problem. I stan for this one artist too hard. I've been stanning for this artist since 2009. I really want to stop but I can't. Every time someone says something bad about them, I drag them. I know the artist doesn't care and doesn't pay me, but thats why I want to stop. I refuse to say which artist it is. But the artist is a woman. I think I'm emotionally attached to them. When someone on the internet says something mean about them, I think about it all day. It hurts my feelings. I don't know how to stop. Please help. Disapprove
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Well I mean you can stan for them if you want. I mean I just don't see a point in defending them I mean they are old enough to do that themeselves.
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i kno that feel girl.

nicki gettin on my last damn nerve but when folks talk sh*t i turn into kevin costner in the bodyguard.

i want to give her up. but then i rmb her crying about her feefees and her dropping knowledge that one time about fem rappers having to be everything at once.

i cant let her go /anthony hamilton

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get a hobby? 
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Who is the artist?
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I used to stan for TLC...then I grew up.
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Originally posted by Le Madonna Le Madonna wrote:

You all know me from that "I caught my boyfriend with another man" thread. Well I have a new problem. I stan for this one artist too hard. I've been stanning for this artist since 2009. I really want to stop but I can't. Every time someone says something bad about them, I drag them. I know the artist doesn't care and doesn't pay me, but thats why I want to stop. I refuse to say which artist it is. But the artist is a woman. I think I'm emotionally attached to them. When someone on the internet says something mean about them, I think about it all day. It hurts my feelings. I don't know how to stop. Please help. Disapprove



Read a book outside of Zane and like genre
Volunteer at a women's shelter
Workout
Get a hobby besides stanning
Go out and network
Learn the piano
Discover music artist from the past (before you was born0
- discover music artist from another country (bonus if English isn't their native language)
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Stan for another artist Tongue
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You can't. You truly truly can't. If you can you weren't a stan in the first place. You were just a fan.

Edited by solo - Nov 09 2012 at 7:46am
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beyawnce?
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