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you don't have to hate him. just acknowledge that it didn't work out. you seem like such a sweetheart. there will be someone that will reciprocate your energy, so don't give up on love...but give up on him.

all you can do is take it day by day..... post here and keep us updated on the times you did not contact him and i promise, once you can reframe from contacting him or entertaining him if he contacts you, the stronger you will get and the easier it will be. before you know it time will go past. you always have those people who will remain in your heart...but understanding at this time, that he is not for you is the important part to remember.

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Cut off all connection
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Originally posted by missunfoolish missunfoolish wrote:

tbh, i dont think ima be over soon. until i cant take it anymore..

i remember my last bf. this mufuka was so cold
i thought we was gon be friends & 1 day, i hit him up & he goes who's this. lmao
never spoke to him again. & i dont remember when i forgot him but i did! it just happend.

i think what im trying to say is, im still going to think bout him.. & hopefully not talk to him but yea
until i get over it without rushing anything

i been trying to make myself forget him, and it never seems to work
it'll happen when it does

im trying too hard to force myself to not have feelings for him no matter what he did, i just cant get to the point of hating someone. i got a big heart so im told
:/

GUURL i had a guy do that to me too, I did the same thing. wtf they mean "who is this"...niqqa why didn't u save my number in yo damn phone.. Angry lol click

Op You are strong you will make it!! I felt the same way I'm pretty much a loner and stick to myself and when I get into a bad relationship and break up sometimes it feels super hard to stay away cuz I know there isn't really anybody else around me and it feels like they was the only person that i had but its not true at all..

It will get easier. Go out do something, treat yourself to a gift...


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i wish it was easy wanting to leave him alone. thanks guys.
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im kind of wondering, i know he did me wrong..
why in hell i still care for?


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Do you keep yourself busy? Because you need to. That's the only way to forget any guy, it doesn't matter if it was a good relationship that ended or some jerk who cheated on you, you need to get keep yourself busy; sign up for a gym, take some classes, clean up the house when you start thinking about the guy, run for a mile, do something.

Why do you still care? Dunno. But it won't matter in a while.
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ok, ill try that.
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Originally posted by Spokenword Spokenword wrote:

you don't have to hate him. just acknowledge that it didn't work out. you seem like such a sweetheart. there will be someone that will reciprocate your energy, so don't give up on love...but give up on him.

all you can do is take it day by day..... post here and keep us updated on the times you did not contact him and i promise, once you can reframe from contacting him or entertaining him if he contacts you, the stronger you will get and the easier it will be. before you know it time will go past. you always have those people who will remain in your heart...but understanding at this time, that he is not for you is the important part to remember.


  I agree w/ everything above Clap This is a time to work on yourself, by the time you look up you will have forgotten about him and realize how you have grown from your previous actions. Don't stunt your own growth by not allowing yourself to mourn for a bit. Its only realistic. you will soon realize he wasnt worth any of your precious time if he left you like this.... 
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i didnt reply to his msg today *sigh*


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