OP I'm soo sorry your going through this. I went through the exact same
thing at the beginning of the year. I broke up with him as soon as I
found out he was cheating. A few weeks past and I started hearing from
He spent 4 months bugging me about how he missed my smile all this bullcrap. I changed my phone number and everything, later I found out that the chick he cheated on me with ended up breaking up with him. (which is probably why he was hittin me up so much)
I should of ignored him asap instead of dealin with him for that long but i was enjoying being mean to him and letting him know how i feel
chick that hes with shes not very smart, because he's just
going to do the same thing to her. These type of men, don't change...unless they hit rock bottom or something has to force them too.
when a guy says lets be friends after a breakup=booty call whenever i need it. Thats all it means, nothing more. He just wants someone else to run to when he gets in arguments with his gf.
I know it hurts its hard to stay away, but hes a loser.
Your loving the person that you hope he would be. And I know that your think about the good times and miss him but you also need to think about what hes put you through.
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal it shows that he never cared for you at all.
And what you did for him, there is a person out there willing to do that for you in return and more
You need to stand your ground, guys like this they are very good at manipulating and gameplay
Everytime you speak to him, in his mind he is winning and he still feels that he has you.
Hes gonna sweet talk you, try to make you feel like its your fault, say whatever he thinks you want to hear, hes only using you..
I know it hurts now, but give it time you will feel so much better and happier. The pain is not gonna go away as long as your in touch with him, you are going to have a constant reminder.
I spent ALOT of time being a doormatt in a relationship, trust me, its not the way you want to go.
And I used alot of kleenex too
Time for that new hobby!!! And Ignore him, no matter what...
Edited by Twisted_Angel - Nov 27 2012 at 11:08pm