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Spokenword 
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 Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 10:11am |
you
don't have to hate him. just acknowledge that it didn't work out. you seem like
such a sweetheart. there will be someone that will reciprocate your energy, so
don't give up on love...but give up on him.
all
you can do is take it day by day..... post here and keep us updated on the
times you did not contact him and i promise, once you can reframe from
contacting him or entertaining him if he contacts you, the stronger you will
get and the easier it will be. before you know it time will go past. you always
have those people who will remain in your heart...but understanding at this
time, that he is not for you is the important part to remember.
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Jess
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 5:51pm |
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Cut off all connection
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 9:11pm |
 missunfoolish wrote:
tbh, i dont think ima be over soon. until i cant take it anymore..
i remember my last bf. this mufuka was so cold
i thought we was gon be friends & 1 day, i hit him up & he goes who's this. lmao
never spoke to him again. & i dont remember when i forgot him but i did! it just happend.
i think what im trying to say is, im still going to think bout him.. & hopefully not talk to him but yea
until i get over it without rushing anything
i been trying to make myself forget him, and it never seems to work
it'll happen when it does
im trying too hard to force myself to not have feelings for him no matter what he did, i just cant get to the point of hating someone. i got a big heart so im told
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GUURL i had a guy do that to me too, I did the same thing. wtf they
mean "who is this"...niqqa why didn't u save my number in yo damn phone..
 lol click Op
You are strong you will make it!! I felt the same way I'm pretty much a loner and
stick to myself and when I get into a bad relationship and break up sometimes it feels super hard to stay away cuz I know there isn't really anybody else around me and it feels
like they was the only person that i had but its not true at all.. It will get easier. Go out do something, treat yourself to a gift...
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 10:43pm |
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i wish it was easy wanting to leave him alone. thanks guys.
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missunfoolish
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 11:06pm |
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im kind of wondering, i know he did me wrong..
why in hell i still care for?
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 11:52pm |
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Do you keep yourself busy? Because you need to. That's the only way to forget any guy, it doesn't matter if it was a good relationship that ended or some jerk who cheated on you, you need to get keep yourself busy; sign up for a gym, take some classes, clean up the house when you start thinking about the guy, run for a mile, do something.
Why do you still care? Dunno. But it won't matter in a while.
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missunfoolish
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Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 12:56am |
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ok, ill try that.
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Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 1:28pm |
Spokenword wrote:
you
don't have to hate him. just acknowledge that it didn't work out. you seem like
such a sweetheart. there will be someone that will reciprocate your energy, so
don't give up on love...but give up on him.
all
you can do is take it day by day..... post here and keep us updated on the
times you did not contact him and i promise, once you can reframe from
contacting him or entertaining him if he contacts you, the stronger you will
get and the easier it will be. before you know it time will go past. you always
have those people who will remain in your heart...but understanding at this
time, that he is not for you is the important part to remember.
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I agree w/ everything above  This is a time to work on yourself, by the time you look up you will have forgotten about him and realize how you have grown from your previous actions. Don't stunt your own growth by not allowing yourself to mourn for a bit. Its only realistic. you will soon realize he wasnt worth any of your precious time if he left you like this....
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missunfoolish
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Posted: Dec 01 2012 at 1:18am |
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i didnt reply to his msg today *sigh*
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