This is my first post but i feel as if i have been around for a lot longer
, any who ...
I have a three year old son. his "father" and i have not been together since our son was an infant and i could probably count on one hand
the amount of times that they have seen one another. Each time that they have seen each other, was of course, because I
went out of my way to drive, bus, cab, walk, or whatever so that they could have a visit.
Every time they do see each other there are months & months of in between time , & my son's father always has the audacity to tell my son that he is "daddy" and is always adamant about my son calling him "daddy" or "pop" ...
I usually ignore it because my baby didn't know the meaning of it.. but now he is getting older and wiser...
so fast forward to present time i get a call today and low and behold my "baby daddy" is on the other end of my cell phone telling me that he wants to see his
son and asked to speak to him .. ***oy vey ***
... i let them speak but i kept the phone on speaker so i could monitor the conversation. the conversation was going well until - once again- came the "IM YOUR FATHER SO CALL ME DADDY
" lines .. my son ignored his dumb ass request and continued to call him by his given name and i couldn't help but to turn my head &
MY son made three at the end of December and he hasn't seen or heard from this man in at least 8 months
.. because he was incarcerated.
but on a serious note It pisses me off because its confusing to a three year old ! together or not if he was taking care of his responsibilities i would have no issue .. but really .. your going to be THE ultimate deadbeat
demand a title????!!! (he has even claimed my son on his tax return last year without telling me and my son never saw a dime from it)
Ladies please keep it real with me
*am i wrong for feeling uneasy?
*should this man be allowed to pop in an out of our son's life and demand that he is called "daddy"
HELP.. advice .. suggestions .. im annoyed.