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Originally posted by Shoelover4life Shoelover4life wrote:

I'm going thur one now my heart hurts so much. I can't eat or sleep I wasted five years of my life and I have nothing to show for it. I'm so mad at the time I put into this relationship, I feel just so empty.

I understand how you feel. ESPECIALLY when there's nothing to show for.. Hopefully there's someone better coming along to give you what you deserve.
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aaawww so very sorry to hear that...i have been there so many times...a lot of advice (some) on here will help you...

good luck and keep us up to date on your progress in this situation you are going through..another
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Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

@modelessDiva thank you for ur advice, I think ur right. The part about writing down how you feel, that didnt make u miss him moreQuestion


oh yes this did wonders for me big tiime...i wrote so many negative things down about him it was like a relief..i felt  A .L I. V. E.  again...i was calling him everything in the book but  CHILD OF GOD..
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Honesty, it's going to take some time to get over him. Especially if you all were intimate. Soul ties ain't no joke! My ex dumped me for a big stankin ass and a smile. It took me yeeeeeeeeeeeeears and lots of counseling and prayer to get over him. I didn't date during that time. I wanted to be completely healed before jumping into a new relationship. I was finally able to move on and now I have a wonderful husband who is faithful and loves me unconditionally :)

I hope you feel better soon. Hugs.
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Originally posted by Shoelover4life Shoelover4life wrote:

I'm going thur one now my heart hurts so much. I can't eat or sleep I wasted five years of my life and I have nothing to show for it. I'm so mad at the time I put into this relationship, I feel just so empty.
 
2 1/2 years for me and like you, I feel like I have nothing to show for it.  2 1/2 years of my time, effort and love WASTED.  I should have bailed 2 years ago.  Turns out the guy is a PLAYA (And an AGING one at that).  So I just ask myself, "Do you REALLY need/want someone like that???" and my answer is a resounding "NO!!!".  I'm better off without him and can now move on to better.  And there was a really good post on FB recently. it said "It's Dangerous to mistreat someone who trusts God".  Homeboy better recognize. 
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