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honestly, i haven't really had anyone breakup with me.  i usually do the breaking up and i don't do that until i am good and ready.  so...

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Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

It's been five months now, and I cant get over my ex, he went cold turkey on my butt, and after I desperately poured out my heart to him, he ignored me long story short. I dunno if its cause Im cooped up in the house or what or if I need to go to the states but, I wish I wasn't missing him, and move on like how he did with me. Sometimes, listening to up beat music helps, but only temporarily. And I've been trying to get out the house, I still think about him, when Im out and about wishing he was with me enjoying the moment. Have you guys been through this, and how did you get over your feelingsQuestion 

-Posted in this section cause the relationship sec. is kind of slow with responses, and Im feeling down.


HugGet a hobby or relive an old one. Exercising helps. Gets you focused on the physical rather than the mental.  Start doing stuff to improve yourself as a person mentally/physically. Let him see what he missed out on :), then upgrade. Oh, and if you're on the odd side... Tinychat helps when you're lonely LOL
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OP try to picture him in your mind all handsome and sexy and smelling good...

Now add a lot of nasty looking boils to his face
Now add them to his entire groin area with oozing pus
Keep that picture in your mind until it is the only way you can see him
Dat niccah is a bad memory within a month.
Pretty soon the thought of being with him is disgusting

As soon as you stop caring here he comes with his desperate ass but all you see is a nasty looking scab ass niccah begging for your loveliness.  No sir!  You have cooties!

You are cured!LOL
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oops, I bumped this old thread. However, the advice is sound.. LOL
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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

By always having a back up.


this is how
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I'm going thur one now my heart hurts so much. I can't eat or sleep I wasted five years of my life and I have nothing to show for it. I'm so mad at the time I put into this relationship, I feel just so empty.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

get a magic wand


This all day.
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Yall some thots.
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I was JUST going through this phase.. I posted a "Still in love w my ex" a few days ago. But anyway, I'm usually stuck in the house and I've realized when I go out and actually enjoy myself, it takes my mind off of him FOR THE MOMENT. But if you try talking to new people and create new friendships with guys you find attractive, it can really help you. Or if you have a guy friend you can lean on and tell all your feelings to, sometimes talking to a guy friend can really ease the pain better than talking to a female friend. I've been in the EXACT same shoes as you... Pouring my heart out and getting the cold shoulder afterward.. Not the best feeling. & you can always remind yourself, it's only HIS LOST and not yours.. Some day he'll miss you like crazy and he'll realize these other females don't compare to you.. And always know that no other chick would love him as much as you do, so don't feel too bad. Karma will play its role and he'll have the tables turnt on him. Stay strong !
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