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Originally posted by ragincajin ragincajin wrote:

This is my second marriage.
First one didn't make it. We married a week after graduation from law school. It lasted two years.
We were both hell bent on doing whatever it took to succeed. We both knew that this black skin of ours meant that we'd have to do, and do and do! So...we did and did and did..and lost each other in the process. We parted as friends. We never spent any real time together once we graduated, so it wasn't hostile at all. But it did make us both look at what we'd done.

He has a lovely family now. Wife was an art major I think. He said one lady lawyer was enough.

He is still a great guy, but I am still the better lawyer.
We've gone against each other professionally only once. One of those five lawyers on each side deal. His side lost!



Shocked  did it feel awkard when you both were at court? What kind of lawyer is he?   Criminal, Medical, 
that is great you both were mature enough to part ways and still be friends. No blaming  each other..You live and learn...
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Originally posted by Cocoa Cocoa wrote:

This is me......Cry



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Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

Smile It was about 25 years ago and it was love at first bite

Me and food been together ever since..Approve
Did y'all go out to eat tonight?
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He was good friends with my brother when I met him and I was in and out of a "situation".  He also managed the record store next door to the restaurant where I worked.  He flirted with me for about a good year and I was joking around like "stop playingStern Smile".  One day things suddenly just went from 25 to 100 and after we hooked up for the first time he told me "I can't be friends with you so if you're not ready to be mine leave me alone".  My situation was still messy and he was running from being caught up in my drama with my son's father.  We dated for a while and then became "friends" but kept our distance as much as possible.  He got married (messy as hell) and other messiness ensued where my situation confronted him and he basically told a-hole that he would never try to get with me but if he (the a-hole) wasn't on his job he would be happy to take over.   Fast forward a few years later we ran into each other one day and haven't parted since (20yrs).

A whole bunch of questionable sh*t happened in between where I likely needed to be choked but hey. ...true love prevailedLOL
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lmao @ love at first bite.Cry sounds like something id sayLOL
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ICE! Ur avi Heart
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Originally posted by DiorShowGirl DiorShowGirl wrote:

did it feel awkard when you both were at court? What kind of lawyer is he?   Criminal, Medical, 
that is great you both were mature enough to part ways and still be friends. No blaming  each other..You live and learn...


Nah. It wasn't awkward at all. Each side always knows opposing counsel, so no surprises there. It always comes down to the best crafted arguments. He is bright. Very bright. But can be a blunt instrument at times. There's an art to war.

Eta: Both corporate.

Edited by ragincajin - Feb 14 2014 at 10:51pm
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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

lmao @ love at first bite.Cry sounds like something id sayLOL
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Ok LadyIce.
I don't know when you changed your avi, but I really liked the evil queen look. But, ok...rock on.
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Currently reading this thread while listening to Anita baker and drinking alcohol. Keep the stories coming everybody! I love em
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