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I'm a seasonal so right now I'm pretty light. My preference, however, remains the same no matter the obliquity

My dad's super light skinneded and my mommy's really brown so I guess the op's right

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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

at first, i was gonna ask why this thread isnt longer, but then i looked at the time and realized we're only 45 min in
*sips tea with lemon*




I seem to remember you slandering ls brothas and then praising ds niccas in the same breathe in another thread. You ain't sh*t.

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I am dark and always dated and was attracted to dark men.  But light men were the ones who always pursued me.  Hubby is light *shrugs*  Wasn't a preference on my part but I noticed all his ex gfs were dark too.

What's really funny is our kids.  They get so yellow in the winter and so dark in the summer.  I love the first day of summer.  They go out to play and come in 10 shades darker.  It's the cutest thing lol  They got the whole range.
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I have noticed this time and time again in conversations w/ other women. Not EVERY woman,  but def in most.
I don't discriminate.
However, I do find myself drawn to darker men, it's not a conscious decision. I don't like red, blue or green cars, I like silver, gray and white. I don't like yellow, red and green clothing. why? I don't know.
 
As long as you aren't a Black man drawn to lighter women, you're good, you can have whatever preference you like in any other combination.
 
You can be a Black man that is drawn to/finds darker women more appealing. It's cool.
You can be a Black woman that is drawn to/finds lighter men more appealing. It's cool.
You can be a Black woman that is drawn to/finds darker men more appealing. it's cool.
 
But if you're a Black man and is drawn to lighter women, do NOT, under ANY circumstances, express that thought. You are indeed, the Devil.
 
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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

at first, i was gonna ask why this thread isnt longer, but then i looked at the time and realized we're only 45 min in
*sips tea with lemon*




I seem to remember you slandering ls brothas and then praising ds niccas in the same breathe in another thread. You ain't sh*t.

jr.

still my truth, never denied it. dont be angry bew, i got luv for you Hug
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Opposites attract i guess

i prefer ls dudes...but usually ls dude go for other ls by what i've seen.


Edited by AmyAmyAmy - Dec 22 2012 at 9:43am
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It stands out when two light folks are together to me. I see two dark people together all the time.
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

what if you are middle skint? like, your not light or dark? or are we just going by the paper-bag rule?


I think women who aren't dark are fascinated by dark skin, while dark women are fascinated by light or lighter skin. Like I said I know not everyone thinks like this (I don't) but I think a lot of people do. Why?
Im not fascinated, I just think light skin men are softer. I like me a big black nigra, he has to be dark to light brown like me but he can't be lighter than that.
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