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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Are you in school?

They usually provide counseling and therapy
no. I tried counseling before and it didn't really do much tbh
 

You probably went to that "free counseling" that doesn't help. Perhaps you are depressed and need medication. It's ok if you do its nothing to be ashamed of. I take something from my doctor.
yup. I did that and I was forced to go to counselors in HS. Oh and I was forced to do anger management in Middle school after getting in some troubleSleepy but I'm not sure that counts.  I might be depressed but I handle that with smoking
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op ive dealt with something similar. sometimes you gotta cut people off. Blood isnt always thicker than water especially when they dont even act like family. i ve learned to give a reasonable chance to people and if they dont meet me halfway or show that they have my best interest at heart
they are cut. point blank.

but whatever decision you make just make sure you are at peace with it.

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Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Are you in school?

They usually provide counseling and therapy
no. I tried counseling before and it didn't really do much tbh
 

You probably went to that "free counseling" that doesn't help. Perhaps you are depressed and need medication. It's ok if you do its nothing to be ashamed of. I take something from my doctor.
yup. I did that and I was forced to go to counselors in HS. Oh and I was forced to do anger management in Middle school after getting in some troubleSleepy but I'm not sure that counts.  I might be depressed but I handle that with smoking
 

You need a real counselor not the fake high school stuff. But I think the best thing to do for yourself is to try meditation or prayer . And young man or woman, step away from the ciggies.
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You had to leave at 16, wow.

I had similar problems with my mom and stepdad when I was 13-16, but I was able to move in with my dad and even though he had problems of his own at least I had a little less drama in my life.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts. It boils my heart to see children have to grow up so quickly due to their parent's BS. It takes away the childhood and those "fun" teen years.
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Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Are you in school?

They usually provide counseling and therapy
no. I tried counseling before and it didn't really do much tbh
 

You probably went to that "free counseling" that doesn't help. Perhaps you are depressed and need medication. It's ok if you do its nothing to be ashamed of. I take something from my doctor.
yup. I did that and I was forced to go to counselors in HS. Oh and I was forced to do anger management in Middle school after getting in some troubleSleepy but I'm not sure that counts.  I might be depressed but I handle that with smoking
 

You need a real counselor not the fake high school stuff. But I think the best thing to do for yourself is to try meditation or prayer . And young man or woman, step away from the ciggies.
I don't smoke cigs...and I will look into getting a real counselor
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Yay! You are going to be fine. Just work hard and have faith in God. Things will be good one way or another.
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

op ive dealt with something similar. sometimes you gotta cut people off. Blood isnt always thicker than water especially when they dont even act like family. i ve learned to give a reasonable chance to people and if they dont meet me halfway or show that they have my best interest at heart
they are cut. point blank.

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good luck
yeah i learned that the hard way.
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Originally posted by kkscottdale kkscottdale wrote:

You had to leave at 16, wow.

I had similar problems with my mom and stepdad when I was 13-16, but I was able to move in with my dad and even though he had problems of his own at least I had a little less drama in my life.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts. It boils my heart to see children have to grow up so quickly due to their parent's BS. It takes away the childhood and those "fun" teen years.
Even though I had to grow up fast I still enjoyed life a lot more after I left.
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Originally posted by princesshoneybee princesshoneybee wrote:

Yay! You are going to be fine. Just work hard and have faith in God. Things will be good one way or another.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your help Hug
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Aww you are welcomeHug
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