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    Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 1:56pm
I am just curious to know what you lovely ladies think about having a significant other in jail.
 
what does holding a man down in jail mean to you?
 
does that mean you are still in a relationship while he is in jail and still have sexual relations with other people?
or do you hold onto the relationship and keep your love box off limits till they touch down?
 
how long is too long?
how long is acceptable amount of time to wait?
 
 
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If your fcking other ppl behind his back you might as well break up with it, unless yall had an agreement about it.

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well, if he is a gang member and you continue to have sex with others or end the relationship with him, most likely you won't live to see tomorrow...

but if the man is in jail for a dui or due to a fight (self-defense), then I would wait without having sex with anyone else, but only if I were in love.
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I would never date a guy in prison (jail is only for a week or so.)

And if he committed a crime which landed him in prison ... the relationship/marriage would be over.

I would never saddle myself with a guy sitting in prison for years fighting and likely having sex with other men ... and when he gets out - then what? He will have a criminal record so he can't get a decent job, can't get a passport etc .. ever so he will be out but miserable.

So then you are stuck living a kind of half life with this fool.

No. If he breaks the law ... he breaks our relationship and all bets are off.

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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I would never date a guy in prison (jail is only for a week or so.)

And if he committed a crime which landed him in prison ... the relationship/marriage would be over.

I would never saddle myself with a guy sitting in prison for years fighting and likely having sex with other men ... and when he gets out - then what? He will have a criminal record so he can't get a decent job, can't get a passport etc .. ever so he will be out but miserable.

So then you are stuck living a kind of half life with this fool.

No. If he breaks the law ... he breaks our relationship and all bets are off.
 
 
I felt the same way until my s/o went to jail and I feel kind of dumb for saying I would never do it
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Originally posted by BeanieBabiesMommy BeanieBabiesMommy wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I would never date a guy in prison (jail is only for a week or so.)

And if he committed a crime which landed him in prison ... the relationship/marriage would be over.

I would never saddle myself with a guy sitting in prison for years fighting and likely having sex with other men ... and when he gets out - then what? He will have a criminal record so he can't get a decent job, can't get a passport etc .. ever so he will be out but miserable.

So then you are stuck living a kind of half life with this fool.

No. If he breaks the law ... he breaks our relationship and all bets are off.
 
 
I felt the same way until my s/o went to jail and I feel kind of dumb for saying I would never do it
it is always easier to say something then to actually do it . It depends on the person but I think you should ask yourself would he do the same for you ?
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Originally posted by cicision cicision wrote:

Originally posted by BeanieBabiesMommy BeanieBabiesMommy wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I would never date a guy in prison (jail is only for a week or so.)

And if he committed a crime which landed him in prison ... the relationship/marriage would be over.

I would never saddle myself with a guy sitting in prison for years fighting and likely having sex with other men ... and when he gets out - then what? He will have a criminal record so he can't get a decent job, can't get a passport etc .. ever so he will be out but miserable.

So then you are stuck living a kind of half life with this fool.

No. If he breaks the law ... he breaks our relationship and all bets are off.
 
 
I felt the same way until my s/o went to jail and I feel kind of dumb for saying I would never do it
it is always easier to say something then to actually do it . It depends on the person but I think you should ask yourself would he do the same for you ?
No he would NOT but I know he would sure as hell lie and make it seem like he was lol
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Originally posted by BeanieBabiesMommy BeanieBabiesMommy wrote:

Originally posted by cicision cicision wrote:

Originally posted by BeanieBabiesMommy BeanieBabiesMommy wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I would never date a guy in prison (jail is only for a week or so.)

And if he committed a crime which landed him in prison ... the relationship/marriage would be over.

I would never saddle myself with a guy sitting in prison for years fighting and likely having sex with other men ... and when he gets out - then what? He will have a criminal record so he can't get a decent job, can't get a passport etc .. ever so he will be out but miserable.

So then you are stuck living a kind of half life with this fool.

No. If he breaks the law ... he breaks our relationship and all bets are off.
 
 
I felt the same way until my s/o went to jail and I feel kind of dumb for saying I would never do it
it is always easier to say something then to actually do it . It depends on the person but I think you should ask yourself would he do the same for you ?
That is always the sh*tty thing women give up so much for men if only they would do the same
No he would NOT but I know he would sure as hell lie and make it seem like he was lol
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Honey, we live in a world where if a woman has sex with more than one man at a time. she is a slut. mean while society expects a man to have sex with mutliple women.

Edited by BeanieBabiesMommy - Dec 29 2013 at 6:45pm
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My significant other would no longer be significant if he was in jail...
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