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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

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*Bride really isn't close too her soon to be sister in law. She hangs with them when she is with her fiance and his family but outside of that, her go to girls are her own immediate family and besties
*To add three bridesmaids would mean finding more groomsmen, paying for 3 more dresses and shoes, bridesmaid gifts, 1 more hotel room(getting married in manhattan and the whole entire bridal party is staying in Manhattan overnight), getting a larger limo
*(back when she broke the news to them)Sister-in-laws to be told her that they should have been of the first people she thought of to put on her list for bridal party. Bride told them her family were the first ones who she thought of. They told her they were basically her family now so she should just keep her sisters and lop off her cousins and friends to add them.
*Bride and groom had plans to have their immediate family wear specific colors and also walk down the aisle(right after bridal party, before flower girls) and they were to be announced at reception when they announce everyone in the bridal party. They said that is corny and they didn't want to do that(the sisters)


 

The couple needs to firmly set forth boundaries now because these sisters in law are an interfering handful. Firmly tell them no and don't leave any room for discussion. 
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those women don't need to be in the wedding, family or not
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I wouldnt expect to be in my brothers wedding either.

If she asks me then thats cool, but why would I wanna be a bridesmaid with a bunch of girls I dont really know to begin with
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  As far as the wedding,If SIL ain't contributing to the finances , yeah, they need to shut up...  The bride and groom respresent the joining of the two families, so their reasoning is wack.. Bride should include whomever she likes in the wedding.. If sisters don't like it, sisters can choose to not show or shut up and sit their azz down..
I wouldn't expect to be in my brother's wedding (if he had one)..

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Are any of her male friends/family in the wedding party ?

I have brothers, and no i wouldn't expect to be in their wedding parties. If i were to ever get married again, they wouldn't be in mine.

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Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

Are any of her male friends/family in the wedding party ?
Her brother is his best man. However, they've been friends since college. She started dating him a year or two after he graduated college.

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