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Only people who are deeply in love will stay with someone who is positive.
Not someone whom you just met.

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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:


so on my FB a friend of mine (who is positive) tole a story that basically said he was going out on a date with this guy and decided to be up front about his status before the date.


So...normally, he decides to not be upfront about his status? Or possibly some dont ask dont tell situation? Your friend's sense of entitlement is why so many people are spreading HIV without remorse. Im not accusing him of having sex without a condom while being aware of HIV+, BUT he feels that he is entitled to have sexual access to whomever he wants whether he is upfront about his status or not when in actuality, everyone should have the chance to say no to a relationship at anytime with anyone with or without HIV and really should know upfront b4 any physical intimacy occurs.

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He usually waits a couple of dates in.  Before it get's physical. 


I want to be clear.  He is very careful sexually in regards to his status. He's not one of those spread it willy nilly.


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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

He usually waits a couple of dates in.  Before it get's physical. 


I want to be clear.  He is very careful sexually in regards to his status. He's not one of those spread it willy nilly.

Oh, I see. Thanks for breaking it down. I also know a lot of MSM that have sex very fast when dating, including on the 1st date, b4 the 1st date, etc so I just pictured a dont ask dont tell scenario.
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Absolutely nothing wrong with calling the date off.
Why waste your time dating someone when you know you aren't going to be cool with being physical with them?
People like to waste time though I've noticed. 
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no prob NJ.  He kinda ticked me off with this situation but he's very careful.  He works with other positive people in the community.  He's some sort of social worker I can't remember his title.  He says he's careful because he remembers what it felt like to be informed that you're positive and he doesn't want anybody to go through that because of him...
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he should want to avoid non-positive people 

Should eat him up to think he could infect someone else

I agree with whomever said to focus on other positive people 

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*shrugs*
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With HIV growing faster in bw and young bm below thirty .. I don't blame that other for his decision

ESP if he is healthy

People talk a lot of sh*t

When tryna be progressive and liberal goes wrong

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I know...that's what i'm saying.  It's one thing to be supportive but i'm not going co-sign to say that the other guy missed out or summin' because of his decision.  I'm tryin not to be bishy but but missed out on what monica?  dicc?  u can get that anywhere.  I mean...he's a good friend but...let me just stop here.
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