| vjordan82 wrote:|
NOBODY wants to feel stupid, or insignificant, or unworthy and that’s exactly how you sound. She is on here asking for advice, the damages is already done! What is the point of belittling her or Scolding her? It won’t bring her natural texture back!
My comment wasn't in negative intent and make her feel insignificant, it was to give her advice. I don't think there is anything wrong with constructive criticism. If you don't want to hear what you did wrong, then you won't get the most out of your advice.
Despite the "damage being done" she needed to know that the
irreversible extent that she took wasn't necessary in the first place,
and what she could have done alternatively. Even if it won't change the situation, as least she learned from her mistake and knows what to do next time she feels like she can't wear her hair.Still sorry vjordan82 if the way i worded that post it was offensive or too blunt. Hopefully you were able to take something helpful out of my advice.