Help...I want my man back!!

patternsandtexture wrote: If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean?

Haha, you expect him to cut off contact with his baby's mother? ...and you haven't known him for that long? Yeah, unless he's an idiot that won't happen. You're lusting for him, that's not love.

Printer_Ink wrote: patternsandtexture wrote: If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean?   WHAT? Now .. what the heck kind of advice is THAT to give a woman?   Nooo .. women do not FIGHT for men. Men FIGHT for women DUH!!! That would MESS UP the whole balance of power in a relationship. OP ...  Don't let that man make a fool out of you. (Well, not any more that he already has!)   The only women out there fighting  for a man that is treating them like S**** (hee, hee!) are these desparate, damaged goods type of individuals ... that don't know their own worth.   If that guy was interested in YOU ... he would be with you. In this case .. he is just using you so forget about him.   Oh yeah patternsandtextur is a GUY!

Edited by patternsandtexture - Nov 05 2013 at 11:11am

Printer_Ink wrote: patternsandtexture wrote: If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean?   WHAT? Now .. what the heck kind of advice is THAT to give a woman?   Nooo .. women do not FIGHT for men. Men FIGHT for women DUH!!! That would MESS UP the whole balance of power in a relationship. OP ...  Don't let that man make a fool out of you. (Well, not any more that he already has!)   The only women out there fighting  for a man that is treating them like S**** (hee, hee!) are these desparate, damaged goods type of individuals ... that don't know their own worth.   If that guy was interested in YOU ... he would be with you. In this case .. he is just using you so forget about him.   Oh yeah <SPAN id=userPro30 =msgSidePro title="View Drop Down" ="showDropDown'userPro30', 'proMenu30', 160, 0;">patternsandtextur is a GUY! </SPAN>

I actually agree with this.....that was the worst advice given in this thread.

She is in an abusive relationship  a situation for which this world is rife .. and you would ENCOURAGE her to .. 'fight for her man'? Wowwwwww!

Edited by Printer_Ink - Nov 06 2013 at 12:38pm