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EasterBell 
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 Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 7:59am |
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If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean? |
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 8:00am |
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Damn y'all mean.. I agree to some things but shyt....way too harsh. |
Well, sometimes the truth hurts..
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 8:09am |
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Haha, you expect him to cut off contact with his baby's mother? ...and you haven't known him for that long? Yeah, unless he's an idiot that won't happen. You're lusting for him, that's not love.
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 9:23am |
patternsandtexture wrote:
If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean? |
WHAT?
Now .. what the heck kind of advice is THAT to give a woman? 
Nooo .. women do not FIGHT for men. Men FIGHT for women DUH!!! That would MESS UP the whole balance of power in a relationship. OP ... Don't let that man make a fool out of you. (Well, not any more that he already has!) 
The only women out there fighting  for a man that is treating them like S**** (hee, hee!) are these desparate, damaged goods type of individuals ... that don't know their own worth.
If that guy was interested in YOU ... he would be with you. In this case .. he is just using you so forget about him.
Oh yeah patternsandtextur is a GUY! 
Edited by Printer_Ink - Nov 05 2013 at 9:27am
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 10:15am |
Printer_Ink wrote:
patternsandtexture wrote:
If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean? |
WHAT?
Now .. what the heck kind of advice is THAT to give a woman?
Nooo .. women do not FIGHT for men. Men FIGHT for women DUH!!! That would MESS UP the whole balance of power in a relationship. OP ... Don't let that man make a fool out of you. (Well, not any more that he already has!)
The only women out there fighting for a man that is treating them like S**** (hee, hee!) are these desparate, damaged goods type of individuals ... that don't know their own worth.
If that guy was interested in YOU ... he would be with you. In this case .. he is just using you so forget about him.
Oh yeah patternsandtextur is a GUY! |
She didn't ask to leave or stay in this situation, but get her man back, so I told her what to do. I don't do no less or more.
Edited by patternsandtexture - Nov 05 2013 at 11:11am
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 11:47pm |
EasterBell wrote:
Twisted_Angel wrote:
Damn y'all mean.. I agree to some things but shyt....way too harsh. |
Well, sometimes the truth hurts..
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True but everybody makes mistakes..she came here for support..y'all probably ran her away.
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Posted: Nov 05 2013 at 11:51pm |
Printer_Ink wrote:
patternsandtexture wrote:
If you want him back, than you are going to have to fight for him, that means womaning up and making yourself the better woman. You are going to have to take him out of his child's life if you want him totally for yourself. Don't let his baby mama try to take your man back, you got this girl. If he is what you want, you got to do what you gotta do boo, so take those extra classes in college, just show you are the better woman and she is the one stuck with the kid nah'mean? |
WHAT?
Now .. what the heck kind of advice is THAT to give a woman?
Nooo .. women do not FIGHT for men. Men FIGHT for women DUH!!! That would MESS UP the whole balance of power in a relationship. OP ... Don't let that man make a fool out of you. (Well, not any more that he already has!)
The only women out there fighting for a man that is treating them like S**** (hee, hee!) are these desparate, damaged goods type of individuals ... that don't know their own worth.
If that guy was interested in YOU ... he would be with you. In this case .. he is just using you so forget about him.
Oh yeah <SPAN id=userPro30 =msgSidePro title="View Drop Down" ="showDropDown'userPro30', 'proMenu30', 160, 0;">patternsandtextur is a GUY! </SPAN> |
I actually agree with this.....that was the worst advice given in this thread.
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Posted: Nov 06 2013 at 6:34am |
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It's what she wanted to hear not what she needs, she never asked for a need or intervention.
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Posted: Nov 06 2013 at 12:14pm |
She is in an abusive relationship  a situation for which this world is rife .. and you would ENCOURAGE her to .. 'fight for her man'? Wowwwwww! (Aside for the fact that NO self-respecting woman should EVER fight for a man! hee hee!) If she does not have someone in her life that cares enough about her to tell her the truth ... she will get it here from a bunch of strangers but I am not backing down and saying what she wants to hear. Oh no, that would be .. a lie.  Next she will be will writing us from some little corner talking about how he has kicked her a*** and she is afraid to leave him! We've read posts like that in this forum. Crazy, when all she had to do was .... walk away to begin with. You are a GUY and you are giving BAD ADVICE to a woman that is clearly unstable and not quite right in the head! You just need to stay out of it!
Edited by Printer_Ink - Nov 06 2013 at 12:38pm
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Posted: Nov 06 2013 at 12:19pm |
patternsandtexture wrote:
It's what she wanted to hear not what she needs, she never asked for a need or intervention. |
Your advice was great. Maybe she will do like MOST women do and do the EXACT opposite. 
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