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Originally posted by ms_got_it_all ms_got_it_all wrote:

So I met this guy during the summer. Based off the fact that we enjoyed each other company and also have so much in common we decided to be together. We spent every day together for the first week of our relationship then afterwards we only seen each other like 1or2 days out the week. we used to talk/text all day everyday then he started not replying to my text or answering my calls so I would have to go to his house to see or talk to him. Now he stays down the street from me (6 houses down) so I see him every day because whenever I leave my house I have to go pass his house. Sometimes I would just stop by on my way home or if he asked meto come to him. So whenever Im around him he cant keep him hands to himself and everything is always good when we together but when I'm not around him and I try to call or text I get no response. So almost 2weeks ago I text him and he text me saying that he don't want to be with me anymore . When I asked why he said that he had just gotten back with his baby mother. So the next day I went to his house to get all my things I left there. So as I'm there I'm tryna control my emotions and when he asked me why was I sounding funny I told him I was trying not to cry, he hugged me and I just broke down. We got back together that same day. In the short amount of time we been together I've fell in love with him. He's the first guy I've met where I can be myself around him, he such a sweetheart, he liked me for me flaws and all. We both are silly acting/playful so we have fun together. But things havnt really been good with us since that day. I dnt feel as close to him as I used to. I really feel like he could be the one for me. I want us to work on our relationship. I need him to leave his baby mother alone don't have no contact with her unless its concerning their 8yr old son. Idk what to do! I wanna talk to him about this but how do I approach him. FYI we are currently together!!


Understand that 'relationship' will consist of you him, and the babybother.

Please do yourself a huge favour and find a man without all the bag ag e. They are rare, but out there...
Stay and be prepared to deal with the drama, lies, two-timing. Not worth it. Unless you think it
is?






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I hate to be so blunt, but from the sounds of it....you are with him. And he is with his BM...he tried to tell you about him and her getting back together....you should of took that as a warning and fell waaaaay back from him. Because in a situation like this...BM ain't going no where and he will be running back to her for a long a** time. So if I were you I would take a step back and think about if you really want to compete with her....bcuz he ain't going to leave her alone.
 
 
You should have a friendship with him....strickly that nothing more nothing less....because if you continue trying be that number 1 your going to get your heart broken in the process.
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Chile please stop! Before u become a statistic. Another young girl chasing a man. Next u will be prego with the infamous "keep a nucca baby"... Grow up & move on.
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It sounds like you are his side chick. The change when you are together and apart is the biggest sign. The dramatic decrease in contact means that after week 1, he opinion of you changed from potential gf to potential jump off. You guys moved WAY too quickly. Another bad sign. I'm pretty sure he has not told his child's mother about you, because it is not serious. You are being played. 

Do you mostly hang out in his or your house? Are you initiating things more often? Is he secretive/ trips up on lies? Do you know his full name? 

All of this should have been worked out and perfect before you got to this point. In NO way is he going to stop messing with the child's mother for a woman he barely knows. They will share a bond for life. 

You are not in love, you are infatuated. The sex and attention is good, and it's all fresh and new. Soon he won't contact you at all, and when you hang out it will be a booty call in his eyes. I been there done that, for 4 years, so I hope I can save you the trouble.

He is already playing games, please cut your losses, and move on.
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Quote Now he stays down the street from me (6 houses down) so I see him every day because whenever I leave my house I have to go pass his house.

So the next day I went to his house to get all my things I left there.

How much shyt does one leave at a house 6 houses down from their own?

Just curious. Smile

eta: Is English your 1st language?

Again, just curious. Smile


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Yet another reason NOT to have sex unless you have been dating regularly for several months!
 
It takes a while to know what you are steppimg into with a man but once you have sex .. a woma automatically believes ít's relationship ... but it works just the opposite for a guy. Duh!
 
Having sex WITHIN the first week such that you think you are in a relationship?  Ohh ..now that's just sad.
 
I think all womnen should keep that 'dime between their knees' until a good 3 months has pasted. Besides the obvious (being used for sex and finding out if he is a decent man) not having sex is the VERY THING that keeps his interest.Confused
 
Women need to stop giving away their power to men.
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He just wants sex.
 
Move on
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His babymama will always be in his life. Let him gooooo
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