Ok im not really sure where or how to find what to do with my hair. i am transitioning from relaxed hair because i have damaged it. i did perms myself & too often
. I don't know the steps to take care of my hair now. i started using a Cantu Shea butter leave in conditioner which left my hair dry afterwards. I don't know of a oil to use to seal but i do have coconut oil on hand. i believe i am a 1b or 1a hair type or so. My hair is very COARSE, extremely rough. i do not currently have a shampoo or really even a conditioner that i know will work for my hair. I'm not sure if i have split ends or if they are just dry. I'm am sure there are hundreds of things that are on here already about this topic but i really need help maintaining my hair. i haven't had a perm in 3 months & i wear weaves with partial leave out. I also don't know what to do with my ends, dry & rough also. my mom says to perm them but i want them to match with the rest of my hair. I am only 16 btw. Please help by listing products to use & or regimens.