Im a capricorn my .bf is a cancer.
We've been together almost a year and it's been wonderful, hes very loyal, kind and generous, people always telling us we look like a great couple and they can sense our happiness.
But hes too emotional and Idk how to handle it.
He introduced me and my brother to a barber.. this dude is cool.
Anyway i called dude yesterday we made an appointment to have him do my brothers hair then mine. (We all have dreams).
But dude stood us up. It wasnt a big deal to me until i saw my brothers face..i know hes been waiting weeksto gget his hair done.. and he looked so disappointed so i got upset also.
We was in the car and i guess my .bf got upset cuz he could sense how we was feeling and took the sh*t personally. Said it was his fault cuz he knew the guy and bought us to him..
After we took my bruh home this dude lost it was damn near to tears..wallowing in self pity. I tried my best to cheer him up.. i was very gentle.. i touched his shoulder..
That calmed him for a few secs.
But when i told him to slow down on the road seems like it made him even more upset. Hes an emotionally driver and was speeding and driving wreckless and my daughter in the back seat too aint having that.
When he gets upset he shuts down completely it's like hes unaware of what hes doing to his self or others and Idk what to do but leave..
I can tell he doesn't want me to go but when i stay things get worse.
Ima capricorn so Im always calm very seriously the exterior but not so much interior. Idk how to handle all this goodness..
It's happened before and hes tried to hide it from me but he cant cuz i see it written all over his face.
Normally he calls me every night to make sure i make it home but he didnt call me last night.
He pissed me off cuz he jumped in my face and was really aggressive.. it surprised me
cuz is a side i haven't seen..
I told him to leave cuz he was pissin me off..
Im not gonna call him cuz i ALWAYS make the first movers after a disagreement..he never takes the initiative.. Idk if it's cuz hes scared.. and he will go for days without talking to me then say he knows i was upset..
Idk what to do Im not mad jus confused..we still got alot to learn about each other but I hate seeing him so down miserable..
I tried talkin to him before i left last night couldnt get two words in before he was screaming.. i did get a lil rude with him earlier only cuz he was starting to hurt my feelings..
It's soo petty right!! Smh
Edited by Twisted_Angel - Oct 13 2013 at 7:31am