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aaaaaand then the update made me feel less sorry for them. 

keeping her on life support isn't going to bring her back. it comes off as grasping at straws in a selfish attempt to feel less guilty for making the little girl go through with surgery.  

eventually they have to accept that she's not coming back and try to grieve and gain the closure they can. smh.
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Oh wow. Horrible news.
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I am terrified of surgery.
If its not life threatening, I'll probably pass.
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There is a big ol' elephant in the room...

But anyway, this is sad. Surgery is always a gamble, regardless of how routine it is. Hopefully her parents can let her go and rest.
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If this is a way for her parents to let go of their daughter and gain closure, then so be it. If she does gain consciousness, she won't be the same and could very well have brain damage, but that won't be the case. Very sad either way.... Unhappy

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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

There is a big ol' elephant in the room...


What is it?
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

aaaaaand then the update made me feel less sorry for them. 

keeping her on life support isn't going to bring her back. it comes off as grasping at straws in a selfish attempt to feel less guilty for making the little girl go through with surgery.  

eventually they have to accept that she's not coming back and try to grieve and gain the closure they can. smh.


I'm conflicted but agree with you on so many points.

And just to reiterate, any type of medical procedure is a risk. When you go get your teeth cleaned, there is still risk.

I believe there may be underlying medical conditions and it not always the dr. Or the medical centers fault whn the human body doesn't respond the way we would expect it to.

I pray for closure of her family. I do believe after the holidays, they'll be more willing to move forward with this unfortunate chain of events.
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I'm sure it is a difficulty decision for parents to make, especially when one day their healthy child with so much promise was waking around fine and the next doctors are telling them there is no hope

The right to die debate has always been controversial. They kept Terri Schiavo alive via feeding tubes etc for years...
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

There is a big ol' elephant in the room...


What is it?


Nah I ain't getting caught up today...I've learned I need to keep my views to myself on bhm.
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

There is a big ol' elephant in the room...


What is it?


Nah I ain't getting caught up today...I've learned I need to keep my views to myself on bhm.

Can you PM me? I have no idea. Does it have to do with her size? cuz that was mentioned already, but I don't think her size had anything to do with it but then again I'm not a doctor.
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