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yes mam!!!!!!!!!
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


do y'all know about a place called Harbor Freight Pinch


 
Harbor Freight Tool Company ??
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Well she can be poor and without a man or take an allowance because she can't contol her spending

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She needs a brake, that's why she gets an allowance. That helped her see that she doesn't need to buy everything she sees.
If I went out of control with money, I would like my future husband to help me understand that I don't have to blow all the money I have, even if that meant a weekly allowance.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 9:24pm
yes rumbie!

TC I actually like Home Depot but HF I cant take 

he could spend hooooours in HF Dead



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she is an addict....
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:



Okay,
Kelly has a problem with money and is a compulsive shopper. She can't have cash because she feels as if she has to spend it.
 
This has been a problem between her and the dh. They have discussed on various occasions.
 
He is a saver more than a spender. They put their money in one joint account, both work.
 
He had asked her to slow down but she says it's her money although he considers it their money. He would like to save up and have a cushion in case something happends in the future.
 
So, he asked for her debit cards and credit cards and now he gives her a weekly allownece of money to spend. She has admitted that she feels more in control and was happy til she told her friends.
 
Basically, her friends gave her the " i wish a nucca would" speak and how they wouldn't allow any man to dictate their finances and would never ask a man for a weekly allowance.
 
And, that since it is her money too.. She should most def have access to it at all times..
 
Thoughts ?? Would you let you s/o (living together) or dh control the finances ? Or just do your thing because it is your dinero?
 
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yes i agree
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I would want my husband to teach me or enroll me in some money management classes so that I can learn this very important skill. Throw a man a fish and he'll eat for a day, but if you teach him how to fish he'll eat for a lifetime, or however that saying goes. Never know what the future holds, but should he not be capable of managing the finances anymore that is something she will need to take over and I know I would want to know my SO is well versed in the finance department should the situation be the other way around.

IA she shouldn't be talking with her friends about a matter of this nature, but she is obviously not comfortable with receiving a weekly allowance as if she is a child or a woman that depends solely on her husband's finances. At the end of the day..the problem is hers not his


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My mom did this with my dad. He doesn't spend a lot of money,  but moreso loses it lol.Plus he's not good with doing things on time like paying bills.
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this why I don't do joint checking accounts
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