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 Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:56pm |
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Girl we learned from our mistakes.  Early on, we tried that joint bill paying thing.....I was like WTF, Baby?? Why isn't this or that paid?".He is clueless with funds, while I triple and double check things. About 5 years a go, he was like "YOU DO IT!! Just give me some money." |
uhm...that is pretty much me.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:58pm |
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yeah...that's how my ex-hubby was. after a while i started to wish i had someone to do things for a few months so that i could be foot loose and fancy free...then i got over it...lol
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:59pm |
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I had to take away the Home Depot card, cause he will spend a couple hundred A DAY if he could. |
i was talkin bout this purp...  |
oh yeah!
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:00pm |
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yeah...that's how my ex-hubby was. after a while i started to wish i had someone to do things for a few months so that i could be foot loose and fancy free...then i got over it...lol |
Girl....I know what you mean.... I told him I need an assistant and he is paying for it. I got over that too, cause deep down, I know I have money control issues.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:01pm |
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Girl we learned from our mistakes. Early on, we tried that joint bill paying thing.....I was like WTF, Baby?? Why isn't this or that paid?".He is clueless with funds, while I triple and double check things. About 5 years a go, he was like "YOU DO IT!! Just give me some money." |
sounds like a great set up. I always say the one best qualified to 'lead' in an area should lead in that area. The leadership roles may switch depending on who has the skills. That's what a partnership is to me.
Edited by PurpleHaze - Jan 11 2013 at 5:03pm
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:02pm |
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ThoughtCouture wrote:
yeah...that's how my ex-hubby was. after a while i started to wish i had someone to do things for a few months so that i could be foot loose and fancy free...then i got over it...lol |
Girl....I know what you mean.... I told him I need an assistant and he is paying for it. I got over that too, cause deep down, I know I have money control issues. |
I say I need a wife.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:03pm |
Home Depot cards are the DEBIL!!!!!!! Plus his a$$ would forget how much he spent. I was constantly on their website looking at charges. And don't let something be on sale.... 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:05pm |
hey hey hey! HOME DEPOT = HOME IMPROVEMENT! i tain't got nothin bad to say bout that mam. sorry!!!!
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:25pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
yeah...that's how my ex-hubby was. after a while i started to wish i had someone to do things for a few months so that i could be foot loose and fancy free...then i got over it...lol |
trust me, sometimes I feel like I need a wife
didn't read post  ... I agree purp, I think this all the time when he's relaxing asking for status'
but this is what actually works
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 5:29pm |
do y'all know about a place called Harbor Freight 
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