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If she had a spending problem I don't see a problem with it. As far as her friends who cares what they think they probably wont be helping if they end up in a financial bind because of wifey's spending anyway
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:46pm |
mr free sounds like my kinda man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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obvious question: is it a nice allowance? lol
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:47pm |
 PurpleHaze wrote:
<<And, that since it is her money too.. She should most def have access to it at all times.>>
I'm assuming she has 'access' to it since she probably knows the PINs, or where to get the credit card is , say in case someone needs to buy a kidney or something (yes, I keep a cc available for this at all times LOL just in case).
But in emergency, she has access right?
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Yes. Also, they are a young couple but the dh has a good head on his shoulders.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:48pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
obvious question: is it a nice allowance? lol
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and that's the only time it's a prollem! 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:49pm |
freedom76 wrote:
Pretty much. Is she satisfied with the amount? Mr. Freedom is the same way. I had to take away the Home Depot card, cause he will spend a couple hundred A DAY if he could. He gets an "allowance" as well. He can always get the cards from me, but on his personal account, his allowance goes there while I take care of the other accounts. He never comes and ask me for access to those accounts. Now if he would ask, I would hand them all over because he isn't my child...he is my love. Now if they start fighting over the amount, then I can see an issue. |
yep. which is why I have no issue with it.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:49pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
obvious question: is it a nice allowance? lol
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For me, the allowance should be nice enough for me to get gifts from it. LMAO....I would hate to go into a joint account and see he spent $XXX.00 on a gift for me. Soooooooo.....it needs to be pretty generous. Win Win for me.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:50pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
mr free sounds like my kinda man!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
I know right 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:53pm |
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I had to take away the Home Depot card, cause he will spend a couple hundred A DAY if he could. |
i was talkin bout this purp... 
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Girl we learned from our mistakes. Early on, we tried that joint bill paying thing.....I was like WTF, Baby?? Why isn't this or that paid?".He is clueless with funds, while I triple and double check things. About 5 years a go, he was like "YOU DO IT!! Just give me some money."
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