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 Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:41pm |
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She gone spend them into the poor house if he don't put a stop to it. That was the right thing to do. I wonder if her friends know about her shopping addiction? |
i figured they did...
but maybe not. that would be effed up if they didn't...i hate when people tell half the story then get upset when they get jacked up advice in return...
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There's always something one woman/man would do/put up with that another won't
You have to do what's best for your relationship and be cautious about who you share details with
That being said i wouldn't have a problem with it.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:42pm |
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In this instance it sounds like his control is coming from a good place, she finna run them into the poor house.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:42pm |
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I don't see a single thing wrong with it.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:43pm |
EPITOME wrote:
actually she can tell them and if they say something she says this is my relationship and we do what works for us.
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pretty much. i'm open with my gurls. we support each other right or wrong, side eyes and all... 
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:44pm |
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As long as there are checks and balances to ensure he isn't pocketing the money to run off with another chick later, I think it's a good thing.
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:44pm |
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he is right, case closed |
Pretty much. Is she satisfied with the amount? Mr. Freedom is the same way. I had to take away the Home Depot card, cause he will spend a couple hundred A DAY if he could. He gets an "allowance" as well. He can always get the cards from me, but on his personal account, his allowance goes there while I take care of the other accounts. He never comes and ask me for access to those accounts. Now if he would ask, I would hand them all over because he isn't my child...he is my love. Now if they start fighting over the amount, then I can see an issue.
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<<And, that since it is her money too.. She should most def have access to it at all times.>>
I'm assuming she has 'access' to it since she probably knows the PINs, or where to get the credit card is , say in case someone needs to buy a kidney or something (yes, I keep a cc available for this at all times LOL just in case).
But in emergency, she has access right?
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:45pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
pretty much. i'm open with my gurls. we support each other right or wrong, side eyes and all... |
yep
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Posted: Jan 11 2013 at 4:45pm |
They know she shops because they shop with her. Actually, she has enough cottonelles for the rest of the year.  Even since she has been on an allowance she pretty much buys what she wants within reason. And, there relationship has improved.
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