Kelly has a problem with money and is a compulsive shopper. She can't have cash because she feels as if she has to spend it.
This has been a problem between her and the dh. They have discussed on various occasions.
He is a saver more than a spender. They put their money in one joint account, both work.
He had asked her to slow down but she says it's her money although he considers it their money. He would like to save up and have a cushion in case something happends in the future.
So, he asked for her debit cards and credit cards and now he gives her a weekly allownece of money to spend. She has admitted that she feels more in control and was happy til she told her friends.
Basically, her friends gave her the " i wish a nucca would" speak and how they wouldn't allow any man to dictate their finances and would never ask a man for a weekly allowance.
And, that since it is her money too.. She should most def have access to it at all times..
Thoughts ?? Would you let you s/o (living together) or dh control the finances ? Or just do your thing because it is your dinero?