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if you want another 100 pages

Create an account as the girlfriend and have her come clarify her involvement in this love octagon

The boyfriend logging on would be good too




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Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

TYPO PERHAPS... typing from a smartphonE perhaps, and not caring to go back and take the caps off?

Or maybe because point blank stereotypically speaking Black women, like MYSELF are....



Dont try to throw in a "typo" when all of your posts before this have been free of them, and dont try to deflect. What did you mean by the comment?
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

if you want another 100 pages

Create an account as the girlfriend and have her come clarify her involvement in this love octagon

The boyfriend logging on would be good too





I'd rather eat my crab legs and steak. Clean up a bit. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JustMe90 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 10 2013 at 2:46pm
I need to head to the T-Mobile store as well. THEY have thoroughly pissed me off.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 10 2013 at 2:49pm
skittles you are spot on about what she meant

She thought she could squeeze a few more pages out of going in on black women

But her story was so ratchet, we didn't have time for that


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Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

but op...you have previously voiced your opinion regarding bhm's shytty catty azz advice, right?  so, i'm a lil confused as to why you would still ask this sort of charged question...that clearly has all the makings for more shytty catty advice...
 
care to speak on it?

Because some people gave advice in a very endearing way and I appreciate it. Just as mswonderland has done right now. I'm talking about the few whose been unnecessarily mean..and a poor representation of how advice should be given...but that's neither here nor there.
 
ok...but why act brand new when you get what you claim to have already gotten previously?
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Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

at the end of the day, OP...it's mean to jeer at another person's pain, but it's too ratchet.  everyone's comments are coming from a place of personal, family, or friend experiences.  maybe someone can share a story about a situation like this blossoming into a happily ever after, closure filled relationship.  

it's too painful to lose someone like this so i guess you'll just have to let it end on your own terms down the road.

I've read a user who commented on the "happily ever after" occuring so yes, it adds to the hope.

There is not a day that goes by that I don't let my s/o how fuxked up his decision was. 
There is not a day goes by that I don't feel doubt and question how loyal he can be in the future.
I'm only hoping that will subside after he's shown me through consistency his ability to be a better man and vice versa, but rest assure. If it happens again. I'm out!


I know you are no longer seeking the wisdom of experience BUT the bolded is a very bad idea.  Beating him up about it is counterproductive.  It does not fit the idea of forgiveness.  Staying and continually beating him up about it is a recipe for disaster.  If he believes that you actually don't forgive him / don't trust him there is nothing to fight for and the temptation to self-sabotage will be strong. 

You need to let it go for your sake (healing) and his (redemption) or leave altogether. 
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grade a, huh? 

this reminds me of when my grandmother used to brag about her 100% gen-u-ine leather...LOL
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mshairdo, I demand an apology!

*smilies aren't working on this phone*

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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

skittles you are spot on about what she meant

She thought she could squeeze a few more pages out of going in on black women

But her story was so ratchet, we didn't have time for that



You keep coming back, keep clicking on my thread, and you keep replying...who cares if you think it's true or not! You're interested! lmao.

and unfortunately..it is true.

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