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rumby...i'll do my best...
 
* op asked should she ask her bf to call the other woman and dead things so she can hear it
 
* most told her to save her energy for more important activities
 
* some asked deeper questions and got a lil jiggy with it
 
* op caught feelings and announced that he agreed to do it but she didn't require it.  she also said that he was willing to move her into a new home and take care of her to show her that he means bizness and also spend his whole check to get her some chanel boots
 
* some told her not fall for the okie doke
 
* some told her to get dat money hunty
 
* one asked her to clarify if, in fact his check = a pair of chanel boots and the frequency of said check
 
* op indicated that chanel boots = 2 hours of his pay
 
* loads of questions commentary and side eyes ensued (becky dropped her resume)
 
* more feelings caught...op made a few slick comments in ref to BLACKhm and BLACK women in general...op matched and raised becky's resume...she has a few aas, bas, masters and will have her phd at 23.
 
* gkisses drove by and dropped reciepts on op's previous posts regarding this same man indicating that he currently lives with her...and was cheating 40 days in
 
* more side eyes, commentary and additional feelings caught (maysay said she may as well gone head and add std to that list of letters behind her name)
 
* op claims to be black/white/asian/hatian/trini...ect ect ect...and color blind...yet coincidently several shades lighter than a paper bag...
 
* more side eyes...commentary...jokes...
 
* and so here we are...
 
 
 


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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

gogo gadget


LOLCry I'm not sure its possible for me to love you more but this right here... Heart
 
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kfoxx for real this game has no rules only a handbook

Waaaaaaaay back when, I had a girl I was highly suspicious of,  reach out to me, to tell me to my face that she was "his" cousin, she named the auntie, her siblings, how the whole family was connected, the whole line, said I would be like a sister to her

I still ain't believe her or trust his ass so I was like oh ok farewell

Giiiiiiiiirl come to find out through the grapevine, that was no cousin, distant close or otherwise, that was a side piece 

That's why I go by instinct and the handbook lol and don't give a damn what people say

*i wish cells had cams then, because that belonged on youtube






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This here phone lol

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OP likes the wikis but not us?   I guess she can save this one for next time maybe?  Because we said alladis and she felt we were being hateful/mean.  

http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Cheating-Boyfriend
http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-a-Lying-Boyfriend

Warnings

  • Be careful about accepting his apologies, if he really loved you, he wouldn't have done it in the first place!
  • Stick to your word, don't let him convince you that he will change, those are empty promises. People don't change, in essence you are who you are.!
  • Sometimes, what you consider "cheating" is not what he thinks is cheating. You might think taking another woman out on a date is cheating, but it will not be cheating for him. Whatever this misunderstanding leads to, stick to your standards and what is comfortable for you. Otherwise, you'll be stuck with a lifetime of "cheating" which will feel very much like betrayal whatever you call it.
  • If he loves you he will break off any other relationships that will cause drama in your relationship. Anything negative that he allows, is just because he allows a third party in. At the end, it means he only loves himself.
  • Don't drink or use any form of escapism. This will make things worse.
  • Be absolutely sure he is cheating or you will chase off the poor guy.

This one right here is FILLED with bad advice.  Lawd.  Dead

http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-a-Cheating-Boyfriend


Ask the woman that he’s having an affair with, if you know or suspect who she is. Most women will sympathize and tell the truth. Oftentimes, this is exactly what she wants—for you to know. She may want you to leave him, so she can have your man all to herself. Many women are offended to be somebody’s secret, or second choice.


Nope, nope and nope.  She don't GAF aboutchew.
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Originally posted by joileprincess joileprincess wrote:

Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by joileprincess joileprincess wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

now you know his fingertips went no where near that cellie...LOL

Oh I know  lol.

And if he even played the part, he was going to call his cousin like "You know I can't fcuk wit you no more." lol.

Or if they had a contingency plan she (the actual chick) was going to be choking back laughter talking about "Ok baby." Knowing damn well she was going to see him very soon lol.

Or how about I have her number? Or that I know his family very well? Or that I have no intentions on doing that? Ya'll are going hard to keep this thread alive. I'm really over here trying to end it. Lol LOL 

You can have her number all day long. She'll tell you whatever she wants if anything at all.  And you can know his family. You do know that a lot of the time they know and stay out of it right? Guys bring side chicks around family. Once again, you don't know how far people will go to keep a lie going. 

Right. You're right. I have no clue on far people will go to keep a lie going. I've never been lied to, never been in a previous relationship. Nothing. I have no idea. You're right...
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great summary TC
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

none of those "points" interfere with what he has going on with his girlfriend

From your last thread you said it was more than one, so he's completely covered if you push the call thing, he'll just call a once in a blue moon side piece or one of them that ended it with him NOT his girlfriend

He's been living with you and he's just now going to start to bills?


 Negative. The relationship in it's entirety is not known to you and I have no desire to explain, but again. Negative.

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Originally posted by JustMe90 JustMe90 wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

none of those "points" interfere with what he has going on with his girlfriend

From your last thread you said it was more than one, so he's completely covered if you push the call thing, he'll just call a once in a blue moon side piece or one of them that ended it with him NOT his girlfriend

He's been living with you and he's just now going to start to bills?


 Negative. The relationship in it's entirety is not known to you and I have no desire to explain, but again. Negative.


Besides me trusting that he'll cease all communication. I'm choosing to have faith in my relationship. Crucify me. 
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