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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

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I'd make his ass do it and still drop him......maybe play nice till after V-day.....or after you start dating a new dude....
Whatever do you mean my dear sweet Sandra?Embarrassed
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Diane (35) Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 08 2013 at 9:26pm
CC now you well an' know, trying to stir the pot I see.

Seriously OP I beg of you to get tested for EVERYTHING. Please
Herpes 1 and 2
HIV
Chlamydia
Syphilis
Gonorrhea
Trichomoniasis
get a Pap Smear as well- HPV
Hepatitis
and re test in 3 months or so
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (5) Thanks(5)   Quote mizzsandra00 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 08 2013 at 9:31pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

People in here fronting......BHM....loves to act......not everyone but 75%


I'd make his ass do it and still drop him......maybe play nice till after V-day.....or after you start dating a new dude....
Whatever do you mean my dear sweet Sandra?Embarrassed



Many lies were told in these 7 pages......I don't know who and how many but statistically these heifers is lying......
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote khivey Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 08 2013 at 9:40pm
So you really didn't forgive him. You just forgave him to appease him and because you want to still be with him. He can call her in front of you all he wants..that still won't do it for you. Because you didn't allow yourself time to truly heal from what happened. No you shouldn't have him do that. You need to work through your own issues..and if you still have a feeling he is still doing the same thing, well....
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i feel like if it would make you feel better to see/hear him do it… go for it. 

at this point he should be willing to do anything to make you feel more at ease.. 
it being extra is irrelevant.. he has been playing you so you deserve to be as extra as you wanna be. 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i feel like if it would make you feel better to see/hear him do it… go for it. 

at this point he should be willing to do anything to make you feel more at ease.. 
it being extra is irrelevant.. he has been playing you so you deserve to be as extra as you wanna be. 



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Balls in your court.....my advice.....jewelry.......pain killers......cause when you dump his ass you can pawn it and hop a flight......
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It won't do you any good girl.

I don't see the point of the dog and pony show.

You're trying to work on the relationship after he cheated ok.... But this?
It won't make you feel better.

It honestly sounds silly .
And it ain't ever been serious to stay with a dirty negro just for V day.

You think you have a relationship worth working on ..cool.
But all that other stuff is a firm naw

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didnt read 

But nowadays people are extra grimey and these two will tell you what you want to hear and still continue the relationship 

But nothing wrong with making them go through the motions 

I'd make an exit plan, because you know that there's more drama/women to come

But at least the break will be on our terms and you'll have closure 

I wouldn't consider this gesture the end of his infidelity, you'll set yourself up for disappointment thinking otherwise 








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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 08 2013 at 9:59pm
Plus if he was gonna do it then he would.

You having to make him call in front of you????

Girl!!

I wonder what I would do if I found out my sugar pop cantaloupe cheated....
Lort...

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Mugs giving advice that have never been in your shoes.......interesting.
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