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what is meant by acting different? of course  (I) acted differently when I was single as opposed to married.  Unless this is about fixing plates type stuff again???  

Edited by PurpleHaze - Jan 14 2013 at 8:48am
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Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

what is meant by acting different? of course  (I) acted differently when I'm single as opposed to married.  Unless this is about fixing plates type stuff again???  
 
i guess they treat every woman they are datin like they would treat a wife....Confused...i guess...LOL...not!
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unfortunatly people do change after marrige-- its just normal- I was just suggesting that if you want to get married then maybe we should Save some things for later
things like what?
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:


Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:


what is meant by acting different? of course  (I) acted differently when I'm single as opposed to married.  Unless this is about fixing plates type stuff again???  

 
i guess they treat every woman they are datin like they would treat a wife....Confused...i guess...LOL...not!
actually i do

who you are fundamentally as person shouldnt change once you get married

and my bench gets treated better than some nicca's wives

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 As a wife you can be as nosy as you want.LOL
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Originally posted by freedom76 freedom76 wrote:

 As a wife you can be as nosy as you want.LOL


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Yes to the OP

(If I understand the question, you are asking if there are certain behaviors/levels of intimacy one should have with their husband that they wouldn't have with any other man in casual/temporary relationship. Correct me if I'm mistaken.)
 
 
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

I think there should be a change in the apporach... Whats is your formula?
-Is there a any diffrence in the way you act towards the Man in your life if you are trying to secure a (forever relationship) rather than a temporary one?
 
I think the reason why so many relationships fail now days is because Men and Women have misconceptions about how to commit to one another.... and I think pre-marital Sex is clouding peoples judement
Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

unfortunatly people do change after marrige-- its just normal- I was just suggesting that if you want to get married then maybe we should Save some things for later



 


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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:


Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:


what is meant by acting different? of course  (I) acted differently when I'm single as opposed to married.  Unless this is about fixing plates type stuff again???  

 
i guess they treat every woman they are datin like they would treat a wife....Confused...i guess...LOL...not!
actually i do

who you are fundamentally as person shouldnt change once you get married

and my bench gets treated better than some nicca's wives

 
 
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butahhhhrerrum...the bhm man $5 first date rule...suggests differently...it's in the handbook...LOL
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