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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 13 2013 at 1:12pm
I don't know but if I was doing something wrong im sure my mama or grandmama or aunts would tell me.
I honestly don't think it's that hard to find a husband when you're both ready...
And my family seems to be of the same thinking

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I think the way I'd handle disputes would be different.

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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if you're dating for married purposes then yes you should simulate those roles. that simulation does not mean doing everything. 

if you're dating for sh*ts and giggles then all you need to do is be nice.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote melikey Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 13 2013 at 2:18pm
I think when the sh*t hits the fan, wives are expected to put in a little more effort to make it work. I think it's the whole legal contract and swearing before God thing.
It perplexes me to no end when I see a "what should she do" type scenario on here full of fucckery and the couple isn't even married. Ain't nobody got time for that.


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Maybe if there weren't so much, what you should do now vs what you should do later idea floating around more people would stay married. I have no idea why there is this HUGE sentiment that somehow because you got married your relationship somehow changes
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I don't believe in acting different when you become married. So who was I dating before that?
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I don't believe in acting different when you become married. So who was I dating before that?

exactly..

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unfortunatly people do change after marrige-- its just normal- I was just suggesting that if you want to get married then maybe we should Save some things for later
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I don't believe in acting different when you become married. So who was I dating before that?

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I'm super self serving, selfish and demanding. I'm not serious about anyone though.I won't treat my future husband like that, but the other dudes in between are kinda irrelevant in the long run so I just treat em how I treat em
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