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india100
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:48pm |
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BeatriceBean wrote:
I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad. |
This was like 99% of the sex I had from ages 13-19.
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Wow . I had no idea what sex was in my early teens . I see young girls on my job that are afraid to tell the guy No so often . Many are simply raped in my op .
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:56pm |
afrokock wrote:
i wouldnt call it dumb
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Look at that! A male aware and humble enough to actually recognize sexist social conditioning and its negative effects!
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 6:17pm |
BeatriceBean wrote:
I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at your dorm at 5 am in your pj's? B, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad. |
Basically my story.
We werent exactly alone, but everyone else was asleep. I wasnt exactly averse to the idea, I just wasnt feeling it at that particular moment.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 6:23pm |
maysay1 wrote:
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so she a cum factory?
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No.
While this particular author had issues with compulsive sex in her past, from the comments on the article, my own experiences, and the conversations I've had with friends, this is something a lot of women experience.
And not just in the "I'm saying yes because saying no is just not an option" depressing rapey way but in the "I'm saying yes because then hubby will go to sleep and I can go back to reading this good book" lighthearted way.
If you can't relate, cool. Thanks for responding anyway.
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where did you even get all of this from when i was specifically referring to the author with my statement?  Did I say all women who share some of her experiences/relate to some things on her list/say yes to sex for stupid reasons were cum factories? No.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 6:24pm |
BeatriceBean wrote:
I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad. |
 i hate when this happens.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 6:27pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
James Avery wrote:
BeatriceBean wrote:
I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad. |
i hate when this happens.
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which person were you in this situations
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 6:28pm |
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Have any of you had a guy cancel a date because you were on your period?
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