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Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I thought alot of her reasons for saying yes were more pathetic then stupid, and come from a place of low self worth.

I do sometimes say yes "to take one for the team" of marriage howeverLOL
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.


This was like 99% of the sex I had from ages 13-19.


Wow . I had no idea what sex was in my early teens . I see young girls on my job  that are afraid to tell the guy No so often . Many are simply raped in my op .

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Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I've said yes because my many repeated nos were only met with "come onnnnn!" and him repeatedly poking me through his boxers.

Sleepy

Males need to stop feeling so entitled to a woman's body. I'm glad the worst I got was being pestered until saying yes. Many other women have to go through far worse!

Awwww now here comes this dumb ass sh*t. Wacko


 At this point, you're a broken record of a hit dog hollering.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (7) Thanks(7)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:56pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i wouldnt call it dumb

people need to learn boundaries


Look at that! A male aware and humble enough to actually recognize sexist social conditioning and its negative effects!


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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at your dorm at 5 am in your pj's? B, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.

Basically my story.

We werent exactly alone, but everyone else was asleep. I wasnt exactly averse to the idea, I just wasnt feeling it at that particular moment. 
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

so she a cum factory?  


No.

While this particular author had issues with compulsive sex in her past, from the comments on the article, my own experiences, and the conversations I've had with friends, this is something a lot of women experience.

And not just in the "I'm saying yes because saying no is just not an option" depressing rapey way but in the "I'm saying yes because then hubby will go to sleep and I can go back to reading this good book" lighthearted way.

If you can't relate, cool. Thanks for responding anyway.

where did you even get all of this from when i was specifically referring to the author with my statement? Confused
Did I say all women who share some of her experiences/relate to some things on her list/say yes to sex for stupid reasons were cum factories? No.
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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.


Angry i hate when this happens.
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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.


Angry i hate when this happens.

which person were you in this situations
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.


Angry i hate when this happens.

which person were you in this situations

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