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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:53pm |
Not quite, but I stopped saying no for a stupid reason once I also LOLed @ "his genitals smell like B.O" Jones, I love your pic!! pretty!
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Having been in a long distance relationship, I know I've said yes even though I wasn't really feeling like it.
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Being in a ldr makes me not want to turn it down. I drink that thing to the very last drop bc I know I have to wait until the weekend for more.
Thanks LB!
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:57pm |
EPITOME wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
I've said yes when I didn't really feel like it but I haven't made a habit out of it. |
i'm not good at faking the funk if im not in the mood you better put in work to get me there buddy | Lol sometimes I have to fake it for longer than I'd like but halfway through I'm questioning why I didn't feel like it. The clouds begin to part.
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I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:59pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
I've said yes when I didn't really feel like it but I haven't made a habit out of it. |
i'm not good at faking the funk if im not in the mood you better put in work to get me there buddy |
Lol sometimes I have to fake it for longer than I'd like but halfway through I'm questioning why I didn't feel like it. The clouds begin to part. |
u right 
i make him say yes when i drink and i get frisky
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:59pm |
BeatriceBean wrote:
I've had sex before because I felt stupid for putting myself in the situation and knew that I would be blamed if I said no and was raped. As in, "If you didn't want to sleep with him, why are you alone with him at his house at 2 am in your hottest hoochie attire? Bea, what were you expecting to happen?" It's pretty sad. |
aunt bea 
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:07pm |
jonesable wrote:
Being in a ldr makes me not want to turn it down. I drink that thing to the very last drop bc I know I have to wait until the weekend for more.
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Only seeing a person on the weekend is just a regular relationship to me. I meant LDR where I didn't see the person for like 6-12 months. In that case it's expected that you'll have sex. I just don't know any men who would be cool with their girlfriend saying no in that situation.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:10pm |
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out of duty?? why yes i have
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:16pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
I've said yes when I didn't really feel like it but I haven't made a habit out of it. |
i'm not good at faking the funk if im not in the mood you better put in work to get me there buddy |
Lol sometimes I have to fake it for longer than I'd like but halfway through I'm questioning why I didn't feel like it. The clouds begin to part. |
Makes sense...science says women tend to have more of a "responsive desire" sex drive and men have a "spontaneous desire" sex drive.
"Responsive desire" is when the motivation
to have sex begins AFTER sexual behavior has started. As in, you're
doing something else when your partner comes over and starts kissin' on
ya, and you go, "Oh yeah! That's a good idea!" Or you and your partner
set aside Friday night as Sex Night, and then Sex Night gets here and
you're like, "Oh, Sex Night. But I'm so tired..." But you made a deal,
so you get started... and before long you've forgotten you were tired.This
is contrasted with "spontaneous" desire, more typical of male
sexuality, which works more like this: you're walking down the street
and for no immediately obvious reason you think, "Hm. I'd like to have
sex!" Or you're taking a shower getting ready for bed and you think,
"Hm. I'd like to have sex!" |
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