Have you said yes for "stupid" reasons?

I don't think I've ever said yes if I didn't really want to. I have been known to fukk up a few "moods". Oh well.

maysay1 wrote: eanaj5 wrote: so she a cum factory?   No. While this particular author had issues with compulsive sex in her past, from the comments on the article, my own experiences, and the conversations I've had with friends, this is something a lot of women experience. And not just in the "I'm saying yes because saying no is just not an option" depressing rapey way but in the "I'm saying yes because then hubby will go to sleep and I can go back to reading this good book" lighthearted way. If you can't relate, cool. Thanks for responding anyway.

Besides isolated incidents and under normal conditions I don't think I've ever said yes to sex when I didn't want it

i def. feel her point about feeling pressured to say yes b/c of various things. some of the situations that she's gotten into (in the article) is crazy:

But another time I completely misread a situation and found myself in the outer reaches of Brooklyn with a man who transformed from a friendly fellow I was chatting with in a bar into a sexual predator the moment his friend disappeared with mine. (Just for the record, "Let's all go smoke some weed at my house" can mean many things.)

Rather than sigh or give in, I resisted his fumblings and he transformed again into a spiteful, angry jerk who had to be coerced into finding me a car service number so I could leave.

And when I was standing on his front porch crying, and when I withdrew over a hundred dollars in a credit card advance to pay for the long car ride home, and when I thought about the twist of disgust on his face when he realized he wouldn't be getting laid that night, I wondered if maybe I wouldn't have been happier if I'd just said yes. Again.

ms_wonderland wrote: I've said yes when I didn't really feel like it but I haven't made a habit out of it.