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we do something  yearly just the 2 of us where we do a week or 2  retreat to reconnect and reaffirm and get remarried. Just us though, not a wedding for guests or anything.

this is something we started when we first got married and we just kept doing it every year.
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My mind was basically made up, I guess I didn't want to seem like I wasn't willing to try. 
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I went the other day w/ my ex. It felt reassuring to have someone else reiterate how unreasonable her behavior was. I'm still skeptical though, been down this road too many times before.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

we do something  yearly just the 2 of us where we do a week or 2  retreat to reconnect and reaffirm and get remarried. Just us though, not a wedding for guests or anything.

this is something we started when we first got married and we just kept doing it every year.


I was finna call you JackieLOL
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no. i would do it right b4 engagement to make sure that everything that needs to be hashed out is communicated properly b4 advancing to the formal commitment.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

we do something  yearly just the 2 of us where we do a week or 2  retreat to reconnect and reaffirm and get remarried. Just us though, not a wedding for guests or anything.

this is something we started when we first got married and we just kept doing it every year.


I was finna call you JackieLOL


jackie who?

(she copied us LOL)
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

I went the other day w/ my ex. It felt reassuring to have someone else reiterate how unreasonable her behavior was. I'm still skeptical though, been down this road too many times before.


are you reconciling? or is this therapy for closure and growth? lol.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

I went the other day w/ my ex. It felt reassuring to have someone else reiterate how unreasonable her behavior was. I'm still skeptical though, been down this road too many times before.


are you reconciling? or is this therapy for closure and growth? lol.


I agreed to counseling to see if the r/s could be salvaged. She's a great person, but not so great at relationships. We'll see.
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Yeah we did when we 1st got married. It was alot of fun and we did it at a church it was really good cos there were other couples there that had us cracking up cos we heard all type of stories. Me and hubby looked at each other and were like DANG we got baby problems compared to these couples. We also do a couples retreat every year with our church...This keeps us from killing each other. Listening to other examples humbles you to a point that you realize that some issues are exaggerated and most times egos are in the way because you want to have the last say. Atleast in my experience this is...  
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