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    Posted: Feb 20 2014 at 2:49pm
If so, for how long, did it help you and your S/O work out your differences?
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No but I am not against it. We are actually thinking of going to this church where they have all types of groups and support for couples. I think its good to start before too many problems arise.

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No but we're in the process of looking for a therapist. I look forward to reading the responses in here tho
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Nope but me and mr00 will do 3 month of it before we get married and 3 months after.....
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Yes for about 6 months, it didn't help because by the time we got there too much had been done and said and sometimes you just can't get past it. Well I guess we could have but I made the decision not to. 

I know I said my vows but even when I was saying them deep in my heart I knew I was lying, I remember thinking I can always get a divorce and that is not how you start to build a foundation. 

I had a exit strategy planned Confused




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We did premarital and some post.....Read Ephesians chapter 5LOL

The problems arise when people don't take up their role in a marriage (notice I didn't just say relationship).
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My parents went and the therapist said my dad was 100% wrong LOL

They didn't make it as a couple
 
He still brings it up 20 years later...he thinks they were in cahoots lmfao Dead
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Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

We did premarital and some post.....Read Ephesians chapter 5LOL

The problems arise when people don't take up their role in a marriage (notice I didn't just say relationship).


Yep...
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I've been wanting to go to counseling with the child's father our new University offers it, do yall recommend us going through that platform?
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No we haven't and I don't think we would for couples/relationship type stuff. 

(I've had an exit strategy planned for almost 25 years. Of course it's been so long now I don't know if I remember my plan LOL hopefully I wrote it down somewhere)
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