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Baby showers are begging, and it's acceptable...
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

It has BEEN bad.

I have seen a lot of begging posts
and though some are worth helping out with, there's also others which are just lazy people outright asking you to wipe their ass.

It's odd because we have a negative attitude towards help programs like welfare but here we are willing to give THOUSANDS towards people makinh potato salads or killing black kids.

I'll never understand it.
there are thousands

im gobsmacked by some of the requests

now id donate to the brit lesbian kidnapped for deliverance by her fam in the congo


right?!  I read that story and hoped she had a friend ready to set up the account.  I would love for her to go back to England and stunt on them o's tryna keep a good scissor sister down. 


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Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

Baby showers are begging, and it's acceptable...


that's why there are no baby showers after baby no. 1.
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She can get a section 8 apartment and hide his clothes when the case worker comes to visit. 
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Bored w/Out Me? Bored w/Out Me? wrote:

Baby showers are begging, and it's acceptable...


that's why there are no baby showers after baby no. 1.

my eyebrow lady just had her third
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Showers are usually events that friends have for ppl and you can choose whether to go or not, give or not.  You would look pretty stupid to go to a shower without a gift however.LOL I don't see them as "begging" parties.

 And there are showers for baby #2, #3 and so forth.



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Should a person really have a baby shower for number 3? I'm not hardcore against them or anything I just wouldn't do it. Maybe if they were several years apart.
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Each baby needs diapers (lots of them), some new clothing, and such so if my friends had multiple children I have no prob getting them things for the new child. Now mom should have sheets for cribs and carriers and such so the expensive things (>$30) I'd pass on.

Or if there are 2 of one sex and the third is the other sex, then that child would need new clothing b/c she or he couldn't wear the hand me downs.

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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Should a person really have a baby shower for number 3? I'm not hardcore against them or anything I just wouldn't do it. Maybe if they were several years apart.



Definitely showers for all babies. How do you explain to the other kids about why there are no baby shower pix in their baby book but baby #1's book is full of them?   

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