My first love was one of those guys who only wanted a woman with boring sex.
He made it clear upfront there would be no crazy positions, oral sex, etc. He didn't speak to me for a day after I watched a flick for the first time
Because of him, for a long time, I lied about my sexual experiences because I thought that would be what most dudes wanted. When I hit around bout 21, I just said fukc it and let my freak flag fly
. If a dude doesn't like it, he can mosey on to the next chick.
I did have one guy tell me the fact that I didn't give oral sex( at the time) was a turn off, but I didn't care and he obviously didn't either since he stuck around lol.