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Limalady 
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 Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:18pm |
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Some people put a lot of their self-worth and value in coming from a 2 parent home. If one took pride in having the typical, nuclear family, I can see why divorce (even later in life), would be a difficult adjustment. If someone viewed their parents as the epitome of love or marriage, the demise of that relationship may be difficult to accept. This is just my hypothesis. I have never experienced this.
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:21pm |
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^^well said Lima
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:22pm |
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Some people put a lot of their self-worth and value in coming from a 2 parent home. If one took pride in having the typical, nuclear family, I can see why divorce (even later in life), would be a difficult adjustment. If someone viewed their parents as the epitome of love or marriage, the demise of that relationship may be difficult to accept. This is just my hypothesis. I have never experienced this. |
okay. cuz i was just about to ask, how your parents splitting up would dramatically effect your life when you're grown. No choosing between parents and holidays, switching back and forth between homes, changes in financial lifestyle. Talk to me when your parents get divorced when you're a child or teenager. But i'll take this explanation and be understanding
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:23pm |
Limalady wrote:
Some people put a lot of their self-worth and value in coming from a 2 parent home. If one took pride in having the typical, nuclear family, I can see why divorce (even later in life), would be a difficult adjustment. If someone viewed their parents as the epitome of love or marriage, the demise of that relationship may be difficult to accept. This is just my hypothesis. I have never experienced this. |
People need to grow up.
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:23pm |
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my cousin cried when this happened....he was in his early 20s
damn....it is still sad folks
Lima's post is spot on
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:23pm |
Sang Froid wrote:
Limalady wrote:
Some people put a lot of their self-worth and value in coming from a 2 parent home. If one took pride in having the typical, nuclear family, I can see why divorce (even later in life), would be a difficult adjustment. If someone viewed their parents as the epitome of love or marriage, the demise of that relationship may be difficult to accept. This is just my hypothesis. I have never experienced this. |
People need to grow up. |
you have no heart or trollin
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:26pm |
nala52808 wrote:
I actually wanted my parents to get a divorce when I was younger. They put us through a lot as kids, and the police were always at our house  . People think its so cute that they've been together for so long, but I sure as hell don't. They stay terrorizing eachother. Smh  |
This, except they never called the police. And that's a good explanation Lima.
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:30pm |
Prolly both
SamoneLenior wrote:
Sang Froid wrote:
Limalady wrote:
Some people put a lot of their self-worth and value in coming from a 2 parent home. If one took pride in having the typical, nuclear family, I can see why divorce (even later in life), would be a difficult adjustment. If someone viewed their parents as the epitome of love or marriage, the demise of that relationship may be difficult to accept. This is just my hypothesis. I have never experienced this. |
People need to grow up. |
you have no heart
or trollin
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Limalady
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:30pm |
SamoneLenior wrote:
my cousin cried when this happened....he was in his early 20s
damn....it is still sad folks
Lima's post is spot on
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That is sad. I can imagine it would be difficult to accept. Did he ever come to terms with it?
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Posted: Nov 27 2012 at 4:34pm |
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he did, but they are back together now
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