Yeah... Im pretty sure that myth had a potent ounce of truth to it.
Not now so much.
My first GF was (*Charles Barkley) turrible !! at it.
I blamed myself thinking..well maybe I'm just not a head receiving kind of guy right...
but then I got with another girl later down the road (she was Asian btw)
and I was like ... wow! I did not know it could feel like this.
I think she was so good at it because.. she not only liked pleasing me (and got off on it) but she actually just thoroughly enjoy putting in work.
Not to go off on a tangent... but when you hire a worker ... you just dont want them working the job cause they getting paid... you actually want a worker that actually looks forward to the gig.
Those are the types of people who do the best work. :)