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thanks for all the responses everyone. again life "SEEMS" so much better when the situation is ignored. 


@sexyandfamous: i have kept talking to him to minimum. he seems to not know what happened though. Confused i don't plan on telling anyone because i'm not sure i'm still so numb to it i don't see it as much as a big deal. 


i just want 6-7 months to pass so it'll be less severe (i hope) 

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Hopefully you'll feel stronger in a while and will be able to make good decisions.
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I am not trying to be funny at all, i'm very serious: this guy is a predator.rapists do not just rape one girl and that's it.it's like a compulsion for them and they do it whenever they get an opportunity.you weren't the first girl and you won't be the last.someone like him should be killed

what are his habits? What is he involved in? Is he the type of person who can go missing and wouldn't be missed? Is he the"pillar of the community"type or a bum type who people wouldn't really sympathize for if something were to happen to him?

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I agree; the fact that you are talking to him to a minimum proves that he wasn't exactly a boyfriend, just some guy you were casually seeing. He is probably always on the lookout for young girls. Not all girls are strong and some start using heavy drugs or contemplating suicide due to rape Cry
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote DarkestBeauty Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:08am

You ladies on this thread are amazing great advice but it looks like she's not taking it. But trust and believe the right person will find this and help stop one of these sick men from hurting another woman.

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No means NO!!!!!
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:


Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:



Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Yep, you were raped and the fact that you are underage that man needs to go to jail. But the fact that you are already making excuses for him, tells me you will continue to deal with this man. I hope you get help 



As far as consensual sex, it depends on the state the OP is in. In Florida, 16 and 23 is legal.



Fck Florida...that isn't right..no grown man or woman in their right mind should be messing with anyone under the age of 18 years...


Legal in a lot of places. 16 and 23 is legal in the UK.

I haven't read all the responses but OP please confide in an adult you trust as what happened to you isn't right at all.
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Chile, you were raped.

No means no. Any time you tell a guy and he doesn't immediately stop, not only doe she not respect you and your feelings, he is forcing himself on you.

I know it may be hard to see it as rape because it was your first experience so it may seem confusing or hard to discern anything, but nonetheless, he took advantage of you.
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