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khivey 
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 Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 9:26am |
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Yep, you were raped and the fact that you are underage that man needs to go to jail. But the fact that you are already making excuses for him, tells me you will continue to deal with this man. I hope you get help
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BoutThatLife
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 10:20am |
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You said no.he pinned himself against you when you said no. rape is forcing sex without your permission.that's what happened. He did it. Don't cape for this man, he knew what he was doing and that won't be the last time he violates you. Someone who cares about how you feel won't do that.
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Jewelsnyc
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 11:26am |
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What's this nicca address? I got a few goons that can help him understand the true meaning of "no" and "stop"
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WadadliQueen
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 12:11pm |
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First of all I'm soo sorry this happened to you. However from everything you said, this is rape.
From the moment you told him stop/no and/or you resisted verbally or
physically and he proceeded: it is rape and was against your
will. This is not an easy thing to deal with and unfortunately it happens way
too often in relationships which is why some people do not want to call it rape.
You
may not want to press charges or whatever but this is not a healthy
relationship you have with this guy. You need to get out of this
relationship if you are still together. I would also advise you to talk
to someone. If you don't have any close family/friends you want to tell
there are support groups and hotlines out there. You deserve the best,
always remember that.
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Prazol60
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 1:36pm |
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The moment you said no he should have stopped. Yes, it is rape. Get away from this guy as quick as possible.
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Over_all
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 1:54pm |
It was rape and he was just trying to take it from you.. Should've ran or slapped the $hit out of him but that's neither her nor there..
I was in Vegas one time and ran up on something strange. Anywho we're 10 minutes into it.. And she yells out stop it's too soon.. I jump up and let her leave..
It's just that simple Idk what her deal was and really I didn't care but to force someone into having sex as a man should feel wrong and disturbing..
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 2:02pm |
 Lady ICE wrote:
that was rape honey. you need to tell someone.
that is the only calm thing i can tell you. seriously cause im pissed off....ok im leavin.
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 2:35pm |
Prazol60 wrote:
The moment you said no he should have stopped. Yes, it is rape. Get away from this guy as quick as possible.
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 2:36pm |
khivey wrote:
Yep, you were raped and the fact that you are underage that man needs to go to jail. But the fact that you are already making excuses for him, tells me you will continue to deal with this man. I hope you get help
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As far as consensual sex, it depends on the state the OP is in. In Florida, 16 and 23 is legal.
Edited by Random Thoughts - Oct 24 2012 at 2:38pm
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Naturalchick30
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Posted: Oct 24 2012 at 2:42pm |
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Op please let someone known about what this man did to you. Too many men get away with this.
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