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 Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 7:58pm |
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What age can a daughter no longer sit on her fathers lap?
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Hmm..Maybe 8
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:01pm |
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Most girls stop sitting on their dads lap by themselves anyways. When your body starts to change it becomes weird.
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:01pm |
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i mean it depends...i see grown women who still sit on their dads lap and give them a hug.
if they have a brooke/hulk relationship then that's another story....
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:02pm |
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What age can a daughter no longer sit on her fathers lap? |
That's a tough question, too. I don't think it has much to do with age, but more so the child's sexual maturity and understanding as to why it would not be "appropriate" to do that.
TBH, I think I still sometimes sat on my dad's lap when I was around 12-ish, but I really was not aware that there was some kind of sexual connotation to a pre-teen doing that. That action simply was not viewed as inappropriate. The only reason why I stopped is because my father just explained that I was getting too big and I might bust his legs, lol.
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:30pm |
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a pool situation is obviously differentwhy wouldn't it be ok for a father to be in a big ass pool with his daughter??
again it's common sense...ppl are outraged cuz it's a bath....in a normal bath ppl are presumed to be naked right? well that's why ppl have a problem with it |
I really think people just like feeding trolls.
Also, I'm not going to look at an image of a man in a bath tub with a little girl and immediately think that they are wearing bathing attire when no bathing attire is viewable...
Also, there are bubbles in the tub. My first inclination would be that he were bathing - not swimming. I have never seen bubbles in a bath tub.
As for who took the picture, a tripod, maybe? Another sick friend of his? The possibilities are endless, really...
...but as I said, dramatics and trolls...
Only in BHM world do bubbles and naked people = swimming.
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:37pm |
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Wth where is this little girls parents. I'm sorry but dude know darn well he ain't got no business in a tub with that child. It's disgusting. Dude needs his a$$ kicked for that one.
Throws up in mouth a lot a bit
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:38pm |
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wow. you guys are so paranoid that you guys limit the age and kind of affection that a father can show to her child?
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:41pm |
I sat on my grandfather's lap around that age too whenever he came to visit. Like Black Santa Clause There was not sexual connotation either. He sang us a song and ish We stopped around that age too
TokyoRose wrote:
Random Thoughts wrote:
What age can a daughter no longer sit on her fathers lap? |
That's a tough question, too. I don't think it has much to do with age, but more so the child's sexual maturity and understanding as to why it would not be "appropriate" to do that.
TBH, I think I still sometimes sat on my dad's lap when I was around 12-ish, but I really was not aware that there was some kind of sexual connotation to a pre-teen doing that. That action simply was not viewed as inappropriate. The only reason why I stopped is because my father just explained that I was getting too big and I might bust his legs, lol. |
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Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:41pm |
It's not about what ages children should/shouldn't be doing anything. This is putting the responsibility on the child to somehow 'know better'. It's about the perversion amongst adults - mainly men - in our society who prey on children, and them not having a moral compass to behave properly.
I don't think that little girls shouldn't have close relationships with their daddy. I'm a daddy's girl - I sit on my dad's lap, I kiss him, I give him bear hugs, we dance together, I talk to him while he is on the toilet, I hold his hand - the difference is that my dad is decent.
Too many people aren't decent, so allowing them to interact with children in certain ways gives them unlimited access to harm them.
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tc you from the cabrini green projects. don't forget your roots. i know ya'll screamed to each other from the bathroom.
