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Y'all be on here actin brand new sometimes.
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?


She asked if it was ghetto ppl said what would make it ghetto. She could have avoided the negative qualifiers that are associated with ghetto by simply asking if its a good ideal or not to have 2 kids in the same years that arent twins.


i guess..lol. thats just not how i tend to answer questions.

there is this psych test for a job-- they ask you to draw a house. Simple enough... draw a square w/ a triangle on top of it.. and a door and be done.

but what many ppl do... they start drawing windows, a garage..grass..flowers.. a tree. sun etc.

and they fail...lol

the extras will get you an L.

but many houses have garagesConfused and that is part of the house.
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It's only ghetto when ghetto chics do it.
 
It's the person ,not the act itself.
 
Tatts are ghetto unless they're only a ghetto person. IMO, Rihianna's tatts aren't ghetto, they're "rockerish". Put those same tatts on Remy Ma ,they're ghetto.
 
non natural/bright colored weave isn't ghetto unless it's on ghetto chics. Beyonce's blond hair isn't ghetto to me, but put it on Lil Kim and voila! ghetto.
 
I could go on but my BEARS are playing.
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Originally posted by Sinnamon_Mami Sinnamon_Mami wrote:

I had mine back to back 15 months apart... You can start having sex after your 6 weeks of healing, and people usually forget after your first child, it's easier to get pregnant again.. I love that they're close in age: they are the best of friends because they're so close in age..I don't think it's ghetto, but other people might.. I've realized it doesn't matter what you do, because your black, someone will deem it as "ghetto"
same with me.  I tried to explain this to jonesable a few weeks ago
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Originally posted by RedFoxx RedFoxx wrote:

Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.


I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.

 

However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.

 

Gross.

what in the sam hell???
 
 
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well becky is right. mine are a almost 2 years apart and my body wasnt even healed from the first one yet. it caused all kinds of pain during my second pregnancy when he started to grow. Cry it was hard to stand sometimes.

I do agree with Becky as far as the possible health risk and it kind of being gross but all women's bodies are different though. Some women bounce back quicker and heal quicker than others after a pregnancy.
beck is NOT right.  all bodies are NOT the same.  Some ppl have difficult pregnancies, some have easy breezy pregnancies.  All of my pregnancies were relatively easy compared to the ladies here.  #teameasybreezy
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Originally posted by RachelRegina RachelRegina wrote:

The slang term is called "Irish Twins" as it has been stated quite it few times in here. It's called that from the stereotype that Irish Catholics have children back to back to back.

I was born Feb 84 and my sister Dec 84. We are the same age for about a month and a week (I think) then it's my bday.

I remember explaining it to some people in school and of course their dumbasses would say, "Are you sure you're not twins?"
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Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

It's only ghetto when ghetto chics do it.
 
 
 
Agreed. Plus, you are suppose to wait 12-18 months before you have another child to let your body heal.
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Originally posted by PlainJane PlainJane wrote:

Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:



i guess..lol. thats just not how i tend to answer questions.

there is this psych test for a job-- they ask you to draw a house. Simple enough... draw a square w/ a triangle on top of it.. and a door and be done.

but what many ppl do... they start drawing windows, a garage..grass..flowers.. a tree. sun etc.

and they fail...lol

the extras will get you an L.
 
Why can you draw a door but not a window?
da fucc kind of house has no window??
 
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i don't see how having kids back to back is considered ghetto or gross...
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Originally posted by atexaschick atexaschick wrote:

Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

It's only ghetto when ghetto chics do it.
 
 
 
Agreed. Plus, you are suppose to wait 12-18 months before you have another child to let your body heal.
the body is already healed after the 6 weeks
 
6wks + 9 mos= 10 1/2 months
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