Ghetto?

PurpleHaze wrote: off topic: I always thought it was odd that me & my sibs were 2 years apart. 2 of us have birthdays in one month and the birthdays are 3  days a part.   2 have birthdays  in the very next month and their birthdays are also 3 days a part. There is a 2 year age diff b/w all of us. Kinda made me think my parents only had sex every other year and in the same month of those years LOL.

My brother is 3 years younger than me but then I have a step brother who is a year younger than me. So every year between January 21 and April 26 we seem like we're all one year apart.

Then my younger sister is 12 years younger than me and my older step sister is 12 years older. Our birthdays are March, April, and May.


Edited by juniordetective - Dec 15 2012 at 7:04pm

Honestly, I see nothing wrong with it IF you're financially and mentally prepared. Now that I'm 30 and just engaged, I'm not going to lie, when we get married next year, I'm not wasting time. We've been together for a super long time already and have already lived with each other for about 5 years now. There's no "getting to know each other" period left to explore. So, I'm not interested in being pregnant when I'm 37 lol.

Now, if you're just popping them out indiscriminately and have no real means of successfully supporting yourself and/or your brood...that's a fail.

EPITOME wrote: ScorpioLuv wrote: I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto. I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy. Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread. same reason men date young women?

But by lower intellectual women by birth (they don't grow out of it) do u care about the kids intellect? Or the kids at all?

@jonesable...

I think it's just easy pickings. It's like picking up the apples that fell on the ground rather than putting in effort for the ones where you need a ladder and to stretch and pick them off the tree.

Why put in effort to snag a "catch" if all you want is to just get off? Why not just go after the silly girls (whether that's a true mental deficiency or poor judgement in general) who won't make you work for it?

modelbusiness82 wrote: @jonesable... I think it's just easy pickings. It's like picking up the apples that fell on the ground rather than putting in effort for the ones where you need a ladder and to stretch and pick them off the tree. Why put in effort to snag a "catch" if all you want is to just get off? Why not just go after the silly girls (whether that's a true mental deficiency or poor judgement in general) who won't make you work for it?

you sound like dr phil when he talks about low-hanging fruit


Edited by PurpleHaze - Dec 15 2012 at 7:14pm