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if i compare myself to 10 years ago. life has gotten better for me in every way. i have the emotional and financial security i never had then, and i'd say i haven't had any real setbacks physically. maybe i haven't turned the corner yet, i don't know.

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im just squirrel tryna get his nut
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•I can't eat extremely spicy foods anymore. Now that I’m 30 they give me hemorrhoids. I’m West Indian and Iovvvvve spice & peppers. I still eat them anyways, but I pay for it later.

•I think my iron level has increased. Because I can deal with colder climates much better than I use to.

•My tolerance level has gone down when it comes to BS. My bullsh*t level use to be at an 8, now it’s at a 4. But I still chose my battles wisely, because I believe something’s and some people are not worth the stress/anger. I use to be too timid to speak up, and ask questions if something didn’t seem right. And I would let a lot of things slide to avoid confrontation. But now I give zero f.cks. If you try me I'm going to eloquently put you in yo place no matter who you are!

•I don't feel the need to always leave the house. Whether is going out shopping, or going to a club on the weekend. Some weekends I don't want to leave the house. And that’s perfectly fine. I just want to stay in my lovely loft apartment watch Netflix, surf the net, and chill.


•I’m much more comfortable in my own skin. This is me in allllll of my splendor, so deal wit it or kick rocks!

•I no longer feel like I “need” fake friends or someone to date. Nowadays I have no problem cutting off shady people! I use to put up with a lot of BS from so called “friends” just for the sake of having someone to socialize and club with. At this point in life I prefer to only be around like minded individuals that are doing something with their lives.

•I value my family much more than I use to. Because when it’s all said and done, they’re the only people that will be there for me thru thick and thin. Use to take them for granted, but no more.

•I prefer going to a grown n sexy lounge or bar over a nightclub. The last time I went to the club I felt too mature and put tighter to be there. Even though I look just as young as the 20 something’s. I’m just not feeling it anymore for various reasons.   
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I live in a constant state of gratitude at 40. Glad to have my granny and both parents, glad to have my health (mind & body), my beauty and glad to have a roof over my head and coins in my pocket. I dont stress out over the small stuff and I could care less about listening to people rant & vent - my response now it 'what are you going to do to fix it, wait dont tell me' when in the past i had the patience to give a dam & listen.
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damn, im already at a point in life where im taking people to the guillotine with 0 fcks given.
I guess by the time im 30 conversations will go like this
Stranger: "Hi my name is-"
Me: "G'bye, I dont have time for bs"
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lol. Yeah I didn't kn ow that required aging.
(I started early )
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at 27: 

i'm speaking my mind more.
not afraid of losing friends.
obsessing over retirement (shyt keeps me up at night).
every time i drink i get the worse headaches the next day; i only had two mojitos last night and i couldnt do anything in the gym this morning...da hell? 
i no longer care what people think of me.
i go for what i want. 
i hate clubs (well i've always hated clubs but i really really really really hate clubs now). 
my patience with men has gone down significantly. 
i'm eating better, exercising 4-5 days a week, skincare is on point, and i just look better overall.

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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

damn, im already at a point in life where im taking people to the guillotine with 0 fcks given.
I guess by the time im 30 conversations will go like this
Stranger: "Hi my name is-"
Me: "G'bye, I dont have time for bs"
Confused



LOL

that's me now. 
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I like this thread<cause I'm old

Beef=no mas

I'm still very patient when it comes to my son and family but gurl at the grocery store watch out cause bitch is on the tip of my tongue

I wonder where I will "end up." I want to travel a lot more and I'm not so sure I will retire anywhere near my family and it makes me sad but I look forward to it. I don't know I just feel blah lately about all of the things to come.

I would rather stay in, surf the net, watch a movie and listen to my son laugh loudly with his friends. I know he is where he needs to be and life is grand in those moments.

I have always hated talking on the phone but NOW my VM stay full, I figure if something tragic has happened they will text other than that WTF are you calling me? I don't want to talk about your life I honestly don't gaf.

I loooooove my mommy so much that it makes me cry, our conversation is so different now. How do you feel? Are your treatments going good? Are you being sweet to daddy? *sigh*

My life has really changed
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I like this thread<cause I'm old

Beef=no mas

I'm still very patient when it comes to my son and family but gurl at the grocery store watch out cause bitch is on the tip of my tongue

I wonder where I will "end up." I want to travel a lot more and I'm not so sure I will retire anywhere near my family and it makes me sad but I look forward to it. I don't know I just feel blah lately about all of the things to come.

I would rather stay in, surf the net, watch a movie and listen to my son laugh loudly with his friends. I know he is where he needs to be and life is grand in those moments.


I have always hated talking on the phone but NOW my VM stay full, I figure if something tragic has happened they will text other than that WTF are you calling me? I don't want to talk about your life I honestly don't gaf.

I loooooove my mommy so much that it makes me cry, our conversation is so different now. How do you feel? Are your treatments going good? Are you being sweet to daddy? *sigh*

My life has really changed

forreal!
lol my dad is always on my back about this. I told him "if its important, they'll leave a VM" Then He pointed out i dont check that either. My parents are the only ones i'll pick up the phone for. Im getting better at picking up when grandma calls. everyone else...start typing dammit Sleepy
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