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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

In my late thirties, an I notice I don't put much stock in the opinions
of younger folks anymore, (no shade) because when I look back, I seriously didn't
know sh*t in my teens & early twenties compared to what I know now,
and what I will know in the years to come.

A few of my buddies,
my age an older love to date younger women, but I find it hard to carry
on a conversation with them and find myself feigning connections them.



ive always had a hard time dating younger chicks

i had a no under 26 policy for yeaaaaaaaaars and i agree with you to an extent

however ive been pleasantly surprised

i also get why older men dating younger women, lets face it, they more supple (im not saying all) but in most cases. a tit feels like a tit and not a deflated stretched out piece of rubber etc (im being dramatic but you get the idea) and some men find dealing with women their age to be less malleable and less likely to succumb to their bullsh*t

i do have no patience for bullsh*t though..



I agree 100%. It's such an anomaly, because older women often come with lots of ba ge and some underlying need to compete with their younger counterparts. My ex is older than me, and the ba ge and personality issues that begun to surface deep into our relationship took a large toll as well.
Don't get me wrong, I definitely appreciate the un-depreciated value of a young woman's physique, but the mental exercise required to sustain a relationship seems to outweigh it. I suppose it's easier when you're wealthy or don't mind expending resources in order to avoid all that. Just give them the credit card to forgo prolonged conversations. LoL, I haven't quite gotten there yet, but looking forward to see what the future holds.




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i meant 'i dont have patience'

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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Do i even qualify to post in this thread? ConfusedLOLStern Smile

If you an early 90's child yes(90-95).CryCry

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Lol LiteBrite! It was so sudden. I got thee cramp of my life that year too. It was just one but it was powerful, tears in my eyes, took me to my knees lol. So painful you laugh at how you reacted?

I'm a liiiittle more open, almost friendly. I was so shy as a kid, I missed out on so much
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Im turning 26. I have more patience and im not as awkward with the public. I am starting to feel "the clock". I often find myself staring at newborns/toddlers with plots to kidnap them
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Tru and Afro, so yall date older women? (/pause... don't get your hopes up LOL)j/k

I used to be the same way about dating only older men.

eta: I know I used pause incorrectly.LOL


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yes i do purp

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Absolutely, but now my age limit is child-bearing age. Menopause is no joke to be around, lol


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 you know I'm playing Afro. I added that part before someone called me thirsty LOL

I know your plate (and bed) is already FULL!! lol
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Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

Absolutely, but now my age limit is child-bearing age. Menopause is no joke to be around, lol


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