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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Let's take a hand count: How many ladies in here would proceed with sex if the guy first required a text from you freeing him from suspicion in the event you subsequently falsely accused him of rape?


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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:


I plan to tell my son something like this, amongst plenty of other lessons related to what consent is. But I think it's important to be careful of how that lesson comes across. I believe there is a difference between telling them to avoid a drunk woman because she might accuse him of rape, and telling him to avoid a drunk woman because she might be unable to consent. Put the burden on his actions, not hers.

I'm still developing my ideas about drinking and hooking up. I don't drink so it's sort of a hands-off subject that I'm trying to learn about.


I feel that... there would ideally be a deeper dialogue..
.. this shouldn't be some sort of last minute conversation before he leaves ..on some "oh wait.. stay away from alcohol son and also those freaks who get extra horny when the buzz kicks in!!" .. nah definitely not a good idea. It should be more of an on going learning process on what self respect and responsibility really is 

Alcohol can impair peoples judgement so the most you can avoid those who aimlessly indulge in excessive alcohol consumption.. might be the best route for starters. I always wonder what happens when 2 people are equally faded though.


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Look! Consent text/consent form and condom or no sex. I have talked to my son about no meaning no period. If she is not sure, if he is mid pump and she says no, if she is drunk etc that is all a no go. He is responsible for checking .id cards for age and is responsible for having no doubts in the consent for sex from any potential partners.
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is there a text that a girl can get to protect her from rape?  sound ridiculous?  well ...
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consent isn't static or a standing order for on demand sex

a text, mercy even a marriage license doesn't guarantee consent

in the moment, if there is any doubt/apprehension/confusion just don't bother and stick with people that you know and trust
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RR we are not talking about actual rape we are talking consent for sex. If the young lady confirms through text that she indeed consented before and after sex I don't see the problem with consent text.

I would NEVER agree that a text for consent means that all verbal and physical signs of NO should be ignored after a text is received...never.
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I'm not sure what you mean by actual rape

a rapist can use the victim's phone to give himself an alibi

I wouldn't want to see this become a trend ... women having to go "through with it" no matter what because of a text hours ago or men thinking they have pass for every and anything since they copped that text hours ago





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Wasn't there a celeb that hadfemakes sign consent forms before engaging in intercourse..vaguely remember bhn thread on the subject.
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Let's take a hand count: How many ladies in here would proceed with sex if the guy first required a text from you freeing him from suspicion in the event you subsequently falsely accused him of rape?

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