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Online and offline, some people want to help and others don't. Sift through the dirt to get to the gold nuggets.

I would consider going to a counselor and talking to someone about how you feel. They won't be judgmental like family and friends (and us on BHM). They can help you build up your skills to better cope with how you feel.Hug

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I don't have anything to add to this conversation...but support. 

I believe you'll get through this...

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Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

I never thought I'd grow up to say I honestly have a general distaste for males, but I do. I'm not attracted to females/women btw. 

Something happened a few months ago to spark this, but BHM...how do I go about explaining to people that the thought of being in an emotional relationship with a man is something I just don't want without sounding like a basket case? I can totally envision myself being a bridesmaid at some of my friends' weddings at 30+ years of age and the conversations that will come asking why I'm not in a relationship. 

How do I explain this to people LOL I just don't like them. I think they're attractive, but I just don't..like..men. I think they're weapons of mass emotional destruction tbh. My mother's going to kill me Stern Smile




I never get overly emotional. Actually, this is how I feel about most women ticking time bombs of illogical emotional energy to go off. That's foreign to me and I don't go off and do illogical things even when people do me dirty. I control my emotions cause they are tools to be used on how a situation is perceived to you not an excuse to do anything regrettable or harmful.

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Heal and time will tell.
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She's afraid of being hurt.
I bet if she said her issue someone here can relate. 
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

She's afraid of being hurt.
I bet if she said her issue someone here can relate. 

i think so too....but I respect her choice in not sharing it. 
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I don't trust people in general..but there are some trustworthy men out there....some lol
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It's just as well that she doesn't go into detail. The minute there's a scuffle with another poster, it'll be thrown in her face anyway.
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

It's just as well that she doesn't go into detail. The minute there's a scuffle with another poster, it'll be thrown in her face anyway.


Sad but true. Don't share sh*t on this board. I don't trust lightskin women with creole in their blood that let their sisters beat down their husbands. Having trust issues is very common. The singer Pink looks like she smells like catpiss and bourbon.
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