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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

I wonder why they keep bedrooms separate and don't want the children to know they are in a relationship?

And which one is which?
The children are young . I think the couple are waiting until the children can understand  .

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why act like theyre not a couple though..? 

what are they gonna do in a few years when the kids get a little older..? they cant hide it forever.. 

id think it would be more detrimental to hide it as long as they can.. vs. owning/embracing it and teaching their kids that its not abnormal or wrong... the kids will be more confused about why they chose to hide it.. 

theyre a beautiful fam though Heart


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 17 2014 at 8:28pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

why act like theyre not a couple though..? 

what are they gonna do in a few years when the kids get a little older..? they cant hide it forever.. 

id think it would be more detrimental to hide it as long as they can.. vs. owning/embracing it and teaching their kids that its not abnormal or wrong... 

theyre a beautiful fam though Heart
I have mixed feelings . Kids can be cruel . 
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yes kids can be cruel.. but if thats all theyve ever known.. and are used to it.. it'll be normal to them.. and regardless of what kids in school say.. they wont care much cus they would have been taught from the start that some ppl have two dads and some ppl have two moms and some people only have 1.. but as long as you have parents who love you and are there for you.. youre fortunate.. nothing else matters. 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

yes kids can be cruel.. but if thats all theyve ever known.. and are used to it.. it'll be normal to them.. and regardless of what kids in school say.. they wont care much cus they would have been taught from the start that some ppl have two dads and some ppl have two moms and some people only have 1.. but as long as you have parents who love you and are there for you.. youre fortunate.. nothing else matters. 
True . The article left out the answer . The guys are updating the response every few hours .

The couple, who are both actors and models, previously spoke with BlogTalkRadio, where they revealed that they share a 5-bedroom home with their two daughters and son, but that the kids - who call them “dad” and “pops” do not know that they are in a relationship (they have separate rooms).

“We don’t portray that image in front of the kids because we don’t want to put them in the mindset of being gay and that’s what you’re going to be because we are gay,” Kaleb said in the interview. “We want them to make their own decisions with whomever it is they choose to be with, no judgment.”

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i saw that... and i think thats cray. 

there are kids who grow up with a mom and dad.. and theyre gay... 
youre just supposed to be born that way.. not necessarily imitate how your parents are 
they of all people should know that. 

theyre being so backwards to me... 
but hey, whatever works for them. i just dont think the kids are gonna buy that answer. theyre not showing good examples of being proud of who you are no matter what.. theyre making excuses. 
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There is something very strange about how they are perceiving their sexuality.

Can't put my finger on it.

I think, though, they are really trying to make an effort to be heteronormative...and the whole thing about their children "CHOOSING they WANT to be gay," is just beyond my comprehension.

Can't think of a single gay person who "chose" to be that way, in spite of having heterosexual parents.  Maybe it's just weird for me to hear homosexual people say borderline homophobic things.
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yes tokyo... 


like what if one of the kids (or more) are gay...? 

they showed the example that they (the kids) should imitate a heterosexual household/life.... 
its just so wrong/backwards.. 

it bothers me that theyre so pretty/cute cus they are sucking at setting examples.. it would be better if they were ugly.  
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Lucky children, growing up in a home with two loving parents.

If he don't stop snatchin that babies edges Stern Smile
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote india100 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 17 2014 at 9:06pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i saw that... and i think thats cray. 

there are kids who grow up with a mom and dad.. and theyre gay... 
youre just supposed to be born that way.. not necessarily imitate how your parents are 
they of all people should know that. 

theyre being so backwards to me... 
but hey, whatever works for them. i just dont think the kids are gonna buy that answer. theyre not showing good examples of being proud of who you are no matter what.. theyre making excuses. 
I understand your point . Maybe a Therapist advise against it based on the children capacity to handle the truth . I know a couple that divorce after the husband came out . Both feel like the children are too young . Children are smart . Possible they already know the deal . Maybe the mother's ask the men to wait .  

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