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smh. a year for a hug. 
mean while theres drugs/sex happenin on school grounds.
smh. 
it looks innocent to me. she just didnt wanna be hugged tho
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

This looks bad on her imo because he seems like a nice boy and he was just showing her love and now she's holding a black man back.


I think as a teacher in that situation, knowing she was being recorded, she had no choice to report it. Otherwise she's at risk of losing her job, her livelihood, and possibly being prosecuted/being a sex offender.

It's sad but black parents these days need to be more like black parents of the past...teach your kids how not to get themselves caught up (back then it was lynched).

And I wonder if he would've gotten a year of suspension if he hadn't already had other suspensions in the past.
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damn, she could have put her hand up to stop him and told him why it was inappropriate

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At my job you don't hug from behind or front or let the kids give you hugs like that. You can side huge, but usually you don't initiate it. Like younger kids don't know better and will try to hug, so you immediately change it to a side hug or a handshake or just move away. it all looks bad from afar to regular hug, you get in trouble for that. We had a kindergartner who constantly hugged and she eventually learned and would say, "side hug! Side hug!"

Also, no hand holding. You only hold a kids hand if they are young and like to run all over the place, or if you are playing a game that has hand holding or if it's a sign of comfort. Like if one of the kids gets just and you are trying to call them down or make them not cry or you are taking them inside to get bandages.

This teacher seems to be saying he put his lips on her. I don't know if it's true, his lips could have accidentally brushed the back of her neck when she turned. it seems she's the one who wants it to be sexual harassment. I hope this kid was not trying anything, it's sad.
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The teacher probably made the allegations and added some extras to it to gain attention from her peers but didn't think the situation would go viral.

She should make this right because the hug didn't deserve the punishment but I doubt she will because some people don't give a damn for others.
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That teacher is being a straight bish...

The hug looked innocent on the vid to me. I swear, the public school systems spend so much time and energy looking for and giving the highest punishments trivial shyt and not enough towards issues that really matter: Bullying, school shootings, etc.
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Unless he has a developmental disability, he at age 17, and a senior should understand clear boundaries. It is not up to the teacher what the consequence will be. That is the principal's job. I have no idea if this has been explained to him many times before or not, however i can't blame the teacher for following policy. If she lets is slide she may come back to work with full gossip within a week. Teens are teens. It isn't worth risking your job by making a judgement for what is recorded on camera.
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I don't think suspending him for the year is right but neither is a student hugging a teacher from behind like that.
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times sure have changed.. 

i remember going to my 1st grade teachers house, going out to eat, hugging (although she was female so i guess its diff) but none of that would be allowed these days. 

but yea.. can't he just go to a different school..? 
i don't think he should have came up from behind and hugged her like she was another student like that.. things are different these days.. everything is harassment.. especially when black. he should have known better.. 
he could have at least outstretched his arms first.. so he could see if she'd be receptive and embrace him. but yea.. that punishment was way too long and unfair. 
they're really trying to paint this as sexual harassment.. the teacher could have just been like, 'it was inappropriate, but i don't think he meant any harm'  



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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

This looks bad on her imo because he seems like a nice boy and he was just showing her love and now she's holding a black man back.


I think as a teacher in that situation, knowing she was being recorded, she had no choice to report it. Otherwise she's at risk of losing her job, her livelihood, and possibly being prosecuted/being a sex offender.

It's sad but black parents these days need to be more like black parents of the past...teach your kids how not to get themselves caught up (back then it was lynched).

And I wonder if he would've gotten a year of suspension if he hadn't already had other suspensions in the past.




You know what......you may be on to something, she may not have had any choice but to report it...
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